I hate when my father says to people "oh I tried to tell her she didn't have to have this baby she…

I hate when my father says to people "oh I tried to tell her she didn't have to have this baby she could be going to Miami with her friends, going to summer jam living it up" okay I'm young & still have my whole life ahead of me , my son is not going to stop me from having fun I can still go to Miami with my son I can do things with my son as he gets older he's not ruining my life or taking my youth away from me. I'm very mature for my age being that I have already partied with my friends, & went places getting drunk every weekend with friends is just something I wasn't into because I been there done that 😴 before I got pregnant I would go to work, pay my bills & come home I didn't hang out on the weekends I may occasionally go out to eat with a friend here or there but I was always home when I wasn't at work so it's not like my son is changing any routine that I had 💯 my son is a blessing even though he wasn't planned & I wouldn't change my mind about having him at all, my son has given me the motivation to want to go to college achieve my dreams , to give him a good life & take him amazing places. Before I got pregnant I didn't see the rush in going to college or starting my career I was content with making average pay at a average job living a regular teenager life. I know getting to my goals may be a little bit harder with having my son but in no way is it stopping me from accomplishing my goals for the both of us