Nothing gets me more mad than when I come out to the kitchen. His mom just sitting outside smoking…

Nothing gets me more mad than when I come out to the kitchen. His mom just sitting outside smoking or in the couch watching tv and the sink is FILLED with dishes. Kitchens a mess. But she'll rearrange the entire dishwasher after I load it. She do that but won't put dirty dishes in it. I cannot wait for her to be out. I can't take it.