So I overreacted this morning because I'm a sensitive overthinking female... There's this girl who…

Ik how you feel. When I found out who my fiancé had slept with when we didn't date for like 4 years all I could think of was his screwing them for the longest time...

@ang20, it really sucks.. I mean he told me he has to deal with those thoughts every time we go to Walmart because my ex works there but he didn't even date this girl I just can't help but feel like it's different. I wanted to look at him this morning and say "but she's ugly why" but my ex is a fatass piece of shit so I don't have much room to talk about former people we had sex with but God I couldn't even look at him... But I wound up having sex with him after the argument and told him he was mine and only mine and it got rid of the thoughts..

@rockysmommy, Ik how that feels my fiancé only had she with two other people. One with his best friend at a party.. Drunk off his ass while his friend got a bj from the girl an the other was a girl that was ugly asf.. Like I took his virginity in high school but it's like I hate thinking about who he's fucked like ya I've had my fair share of not to cute people but I mean it's like all I could think of was him fucking them an ugh. Took me awhile to get over it all. But I realized I'm the one who ended up with the guy an not them. Which helped me get over it

@ang20, we have something the other girl doesn't and that's a child with them

@rockysmommy, Yeahp. Which is what I always tell him when he gets jealous of i talk to guy friends or a guy hits on me it alike you have me an not him an we have a baby

I understand, when my boyfriend and I took a break (break was for almost 6 months). He slept with two other people and I know those woman. One ended up pregnant...sometimes all I see is them together, I dream about it sometimes. And I'm not sure if it's because of all my pregnancy hormones or what. I know I haven't necessarily moved past that yet especially since there was a baby.

@schu35, oh my I wouldn't be able to move past it for a very long time just because she got pregnant..

@rockysmommy, yeah..it's a work in progress for sure. He isn't too happy about that happening. I love him to death, we were separated but it's still taking me time. I have days where I just break down, like today since I'm finally meeting his son. I have worries that I shouldn't even think about because none of that will happen but still. Keep your head up momma. If you need to stay with family or friends for a little bit. Just to get some fresh air

@schu35, I just don't understand why it's getting to me so badly since it was before we even met each other. I think it's because I've asked about her before and he didn't tell me that part and just let me find out months and months later.. He apologized this morning about not telling me all of the truth before..

@rockysmommy, you love him and asked him about her and he just didn't tell you. I would be the same way. Not to mention you two have a family now. I never understood why men don't tell the whole truth because it's just worse later down the road.

@schu35, it really is! If you'd tell us when we ask we'd be better off than finding out later