How many of you ladies have messy ass SO's who barely clean up after them selves, can't put the…

How many of you ladies have messy ass SO's who barely clean up after them selves, can't put the dirty clothes in the hamper but can ball them up right next to the hamper, will let dishes pile up, don't clean up after their children or make their children clean up after themselves etc.???

Drives me insane!!! Especially since my BF knows how hard I bust my ass around here and still acts like that 🙄 and I'm OCD and like living in a clean and tidy environment.