Just curious..please no rude comments or bashing.... Any ladies here in a BDSM relationship with…

I'm not in one but familiar with how they work. I think it would be best to keep it in the bedroom and not expose your child to it. So that they can have their own sexual identity.

@lovelymommylumps, its mostly in the bedroom and what isn't, wont be obvious enough for my child to understand till they are old enough to make their own choices. Last thing I want is my child to be influeneced by my choices.

Then I would just call that your sex life. All parents keep their sex life away from their kids I hope. I was commenting on the fact that I've seen some extreme bdsm relationships where it's incorporated into their everyday life even outside of the bedroom.

@lovelymommylumps, I do have things incorporated in everyday life, just nothing too extreme lol. I dont need everyone knowing my business. But still curious about how people handle it when baby gets here. :)

I would say to just come up with an alter ego or something. Mommy has to be a different person

@lovelymommylumps, hmm thats a good idea ^_^