Thank you for replying xx

hey chuck @mummya ... I'm in the same boat it's absolutely awful I hate it. I called the doctor as I bought that cream off the shelf and that didn't do much. he prescribed me a stronger clear cream (can't remember the name of it off the top of my head, it's upstairs and I'm sorry it's too much effort to get up at the min.haha) but he give me that and also a sort of laxitive medicine to take to help loosen stools whist having it. I'll be honest the cream doc had give me has done nothing either. like you say it's pressure and I think it will only stay there until baby is born. 👎 I hate it X

i have thesame issue. my is sooo bad it looks like anal loose skin. it got worst with every birth. have been using anusol and its not doing much but it helps with the itching. i might have to just live with it as it is.cos i dont agree with surgery. dont worry about midvwives seeing it . am sure they have seen worse. most importantly your health and your baby.