I finally learned that it's just me and my son, my boyfriends family and friends is more important…

just think of you and your baby 1st ♡Don't stress not good for the baby

@nygirl3rdbabymiami, I'm trying.. I know it's not, and it hurts me that I'm hurting him you know.. But I am trying to just focus on him.

My husband used to be so dedicated to his family and not us (his new family, me and my two kids) He would let them interfere and cause a lot of problems. He'd do anything for them no matter how it made me feel. But now that I'm pregnant he's a new man. He actually sees the drama they create. This is his first child (my 4th counting the miscarriage) and he feels complete now. We are now a REAL family. I've waited 4 years for this. I'm sorry you have to go through this at such a detrimental time. Maybe its for the best. Maybe he'll come around. Who knows but I'm praying it all works out for u

I'm sorry mama. you'll make it tho, you're stronger then you think. Just focus on your little miracle. hopefully your bf will come around once the baby comes but if not... then just focus on y'all. you don't need someone that's jot dedicated to you and that baby

@morganmommy79, I'm glad he finally came around.. This is our first also, they don't cause drama.. Yet but he does do anything for them and it kills me.. No consideration for our needs just his and how it makes him look and feel.. It sucks. But after what he did last night, it was the last straw.. I was in shock when that happened.. And to know he spend his sons money on his need instead of things for my child is even worse.. I hope he does change when the baby gets here.. If he don't. Im going to have to become a single mom. I refuse to let him make my son feel second when he should be first..

@rosiel49, pretty much.and I'm doing just that. Focusing on my child and me.. Not only I don't need it. But the baby don't need it either. I don't want my son to ever feel like he comes second to his own father when he should be first. You know.. So I'm just seeing how long this last..I will give him his chance but once he messes that up.. Then sucks to be him but I'm gone.

When your son is born nothing else will matter. Sure it affects you in some way but you will be overwhelmed with love for this child. Maybe he'll feel the same, buy to you, he will be your main focus. It comes naturally. :)

I'm so sorry you have to go through that Hun, I can definitely relate, my BF can go days and even a week without seeing me or has 5000 excuses when I ask for a little time or for his help with something but let his boys or his mom or family or something call and he's right there or let any of them need money and he acts like he doesn't have a kid on the way, it's definitely frustrating, you'd think they'd wanna spend time with us and be doing stuff for us since we're carrying their child! But like you said you and your baby are your top priority and that's the most important thing anyways, don't stress over his stupidness, hopefully something will click for him and he'll catch on before the baby gets here.

that's all you can do. I've been I your situation. before my husaband and I married. I was single most of my pregnancy and right before I had y little miracle my husband swooped in like a angel. things will work out

@morganmommy79, girl I can't wait for that to happen.

@jc100495, doesn't it suck, smh. But I do hope he catches on.. Because of he doesn't he won't have to make an excuse for me anymore.. I will be gone and my son will be too..

@rosiel49, girl I'm hoping so.