Does anyone else ABSOLUTELY HATE when people who have had babies and been pregnant before tell you…
Does anyone else ABSOLUTELY HATE when people who have had babies and been pregnant before tell you how you should be feeling and try telling you that how you do feel is wrong etc? example...I've been in alot of pain and run down my entire pregnancy so far and my mum and gran constantly tell me "it was never like that when I was pregnant" or "I don't know how you're feeling like that, I never did when I was pregnant" I keep trying to tell them that every pregnancy is different but it's like they know better than me and it's getting on my last nerve!
Nads·
Yh my mum is exactly the same at times! always telling me about what she could do and how much energy she had etc blah blah blah loool...I'm like yh that's great for you mum but it's different for each of us, no two pregnancies are the same and I remember when she had my sister she was very run down and ill at one point and she was laid up in bed, she also ended up with bad tonsillitis which took a lot out of her and family were helping to look after me...I think sometimes they have selective memories, at least my mum does anyway looool. I've learnt to just ignore it though hun, only you know how you feel and you know you're doing your best so it doesn't matter what anyone else's opinions are on the matter and that includes your mum xx
Chelsea·
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Ahh I know the feeling!! Been having bad backache for the last 3 days and my mom has been constantly at me "I never had aches or pains you might want to try this or try that" I mean I appreciate her concern but really let me get on with my pregnancy x
Sommer·
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I'm the same, I've had constant sickness since week 6, atleast 7 times a day, constant dizziness, aches and pains, and people tell me "it's not that bad" or "probably over exaggerating", does my head in😡
tresea·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
Yes my granny is the same "slow down" "you should eat more" "your too big" a week later "your too small" "stop cleaning so much" "relax more" Yh right with a 1 year old don't think I'll be sitting and relaxing "I had 5 children and I didn't run up and down as much as you" and no matter how many children you have they don't get any better xx
Leah·
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Yes... I'm constantly being told what to eat and that I'm not healthy enough even though me and bubba are perfectly fine according to the doctors and midwives! Then I'm being told what to wear or that I should wear prettier clothes to show off my bump. That's fine but nothing fits! 😂 Then when I do feel sick or sore or emotionally drained no one seems to care! And then getting asked to take people places and pick them up at early hours in the morning while in my third trimester is fine apparently! Then they get offended when I say no. Boils my blood sometimes, 😡 but everyone needs a good vent every once in a while! 😊 xx