Question: So my boyfriend and I are debating wether to have one baby shower I want to have two…

I wanted one big shower but my family wanted one thing and his wanted another that I ended up feeling in the middle and didn't want anything so I decided it's best for two separate ones and baby's birthdays can be one big one.. But that's just me lol hope it helps last thing you want is for both families not to like each other over stupid things

See that's the thing both families are super chill, I don't think they wouldn't not like each other I just want MY family to feel comfortable since they only speak Spanish and if we have one baby shower it would be at HIS cousins house i'm just in a pickle i want to do two but he keeps telling me no 😩 lol

@nissii1994,

I think it will be sooo beautiful to have to different cultures mash together as a big family just my thought..

@lyanne, I see .. Yea it's a tough one ... Would you be involved in all the baby shower things? Or surprise ?

@chibiytino, yeah me too of course I want them to meet, maybe i'm just overthinking it lol

@nissii1994, i'll be involved I doubt i'll get a surprise anything lol

we are having two our families don't live close

One big one!!

@lyanne, oh well much better then one big one !!

I hope you make the right choice for both families,even tho at the end it will always and as being one big family :)