Just got home after running my mom around doing errands, preparing and cooking a meal for 6 people…
Just got home after running my mom around doing errands, preparing and cooking a meal for 6 people and doing dessert and coffee. Took my bra off, laid down and this man wants to talk about "Let's got for a walk with the dog". Then he wants to start an argument with me talking about"its for the baby". I'm so tired of him f*****g telling me what to do. Just bc I am carrying your child doesn't mean anything has changed from the last 6 years we are together. You telling me what to do never worked out. I wish he could feel how tired I get!
Katie·
You're lucky that your man cares so much about the baby that he wants to make sure you stay active. Mine loves our baby, but he doesn't even politely suggest I do anything for the baby, other than making sure I take my vitamins. Just try to imagine what it must be like from his point of view. He's having a baby but that baby is inside someone else and he has no way of making sure that they're staying healthy and happy in there. He barely has any idea how the baby is doing because he isn't able to feel the baby's kicks and movements like you can. It's like having your five year old hours away from you where you can't guarantee their safety or do anything to make sure theyre okay. It's gotta be really worrying for him. Just try to reassure him. Tell him how much you've done to make sure the baby's doing well today, and let him try to feel the baby kick, encourage him to talk to the baby or ask him to pick some music to play for the baby (I let Zack play Disturbed for our baby. It makes him happy and can't hurt) and just try to explain that you've had a long day and need your rest. And anyway, you did get your exercise today. You don't want to overdo it or it could actually cause problems. Take it easy and get a rest. Communicate with him. The bottom line is, the simple solution to almost every relationship problem, just communicate. Tell him how you feel without being rude to him and try to understand how he's feeling too.