My 21st is next month and everyone keeps asking me what I want. I keep saying I don't want anything…

I did the same thing but I didn't know the gender yet so they gave me a lot of neutral things and I've used it all and I'm glad. 😍

@luuuuuucyyy, I'll be about 34 weeks so I doubt I will want to go do anything lol and I don't want material things so I feel it's best but they all look at me like I'm nuts. Sorry I want my baby girl to have everythkng

Nothing wrong thinking like that 💁🏻

omg I thought I was the only one going through this I'll be 9 months on my birthday like what do you think I want lol to give birth to the best gift one can ask for I'll be 21 as well I planned to do a wine tasting at a winery before I was pregnant but things change and I'm happy about it 😉

@kjw21413, right?! Me too, we actually had a trip planned to go to Cabo for my 21st because my husband also has a birthday in the summer and it's his 21st. So everyone asks "are you so bummed you guys aren't going anymore" "omg I'd die if I couldn't order a drink on my 21st" "I'm so sorry that you can't do something crazy like Vegas for your 21st" and I honestly don't even care one bit. I don't feel like I'm missing out at all. Lol it's like no one understands lol

@samclark5 and they never will it's a mom thing it's a instinct and I loved that it kicks in early for us women

@kjw21413, me too! Makes me feel less nervous to be a FTM