I'm in such a pickle ... (LONG read! But will greatly appreciate anyones advice!💗)
I'm in such a pickle ... (LONG read! But will greatly appreciate anyones advice!💗)
I think my mom is either trying to have an affair on my dad or already has ... I'm not sure what to do right now, my dad is so stressed out over a lot of things right now! & this could just be my mom trying to get attention from my dad because that's just how she is, but what triggered my confusion is that this is something that she even openly admitted would end her marriage.
She tells me that her best friend saw her ex from high school and gave him her number without her permission and the guy started texting her and wouldn't stop, so she blocked him. Then tells me that she had nothing to do with him getting the number and she don't know why her bf gave it out to him (don't make sense) claiming that the best friend is trying to ruin her marriage & asks me how she should handle it! Well it's a pretty simple fix to me, stay away from her! Well she says that's what she's going to do, then leaves to go visit my grandma for a few and comes back bitching about drama up there and as she's talking about herself, she isn't saying "me" or "I" she's saying "we left" "I can't believe she said that to us" I stop her and say, " we?" She says I mean "me" I said okay, so if I call up to gran and ask who was just up there she's gonna say, just you and not you and said best friend? No! She claims then later says she did take her up there and blah blah blah this and that. I told her straight up, I'm not buying the shit, I think she had something to do with this guy getting her number and she's feeling guilty so she's laying the blame on her friend, I kept saying why don't you text her and ask her why she did such a thing and my mom won't. So here I am ... Wondering what in thee Sam hell is going on here! Is it a lie or am I on to something cause my mom is a damn idiot! 😳
Brittany·
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My mom became "unhappy" with my dad before I announced that I was pregnant. She is always so secretive with her phone. Even around me she hides her phone under the table if we are out to eat, she was texting someone names "advance auto parts" she would go out with her friends and not come home till 2-3 am. She always says she is with her female friend who is known for dating different guys while dating someone. She was doing this while staying with my dad. About two months ago she moved out of my dads house and moved back in with my grandma till she can buy a house. She has said she won't come to my dads house where me and my boyfriend are currently staying until my boyfriend is at his job for a year for us to buy a house. So if I want her to see my child which will be born in a few weeks I have to pack him up and take him to my grandmothers. Even yesterday at dinner she was messaging someone but put her phone under the table where you couldn't see her messaging someone but claims she isn't talking to any other men and never cheated on my dad. She has gone to the beach twice this year for a week at a time but we don't know with who.
missing300user·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Wow!!! Have you all made her aware that your on to her? I know this could be fixed easily cause normally I'd be telling my dad, but I just can't, he lost his dad in nov 2015, his mom is now currently in the hospital with a heart problem that were waiting to get results from and he already thinks she's having an affair cause they don't get along. He's so stressed. I don't wanna give him more to worry about. I just don't know what to do ..@easton.tylers.mommy
Brittany·
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I haven't said anything to either of them. I don't want to be in the middle of it. I'm 24 mom is 43 dad is 53. They really haven't been "getting along" since last July 4th they slept in separate rooms the past almost year, sat in separate living rooms etc but never talked about their issues. Heck I can't even tell you why they stopped talking to each other. Dad told her she could stay home not work and be with her grandchild if she wanted an have a family but she rather move out and do her I guess.
Brittany·
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@soontobemomof4,