I need to to rant.. My boyfriend of 3 and half years just graduated from high school he was a great…

I need to to rant.. My boyfriend of 3 and half years just graduated from high school he was a great football player had some offers for some schools and one full ride to tabor college in Kansas. I graduated in 2015, I was going to school for cosmetology, before in was pregnant. I discontinued so I could work full time before the baby comes, and so he wasn't the only one working full time. I get blamed from his family and my own grandmother of trapping him... It breaks my heart every time I hear people say it. I know his mom is an alcoholic and she loves me like a daughter but she has no filter.. I keep crying on my hubbys shoulder every time someone says I trapped him. He didn't want to go to those colleges and play football the school didn't offer the classes he needed to be an electrician. His mom and my grandma will always tell him you can go to college still and I can stay with in Minnesota with the baby while he goes to Kansas. My SO always tells them he doesn't want to miss his sons first year of growing up. He wants to be here with his family and watch his son grow up. We're both very excited to have our son here shortly and it's depressing when his moms says these hurtful things and my grandma. I'm so blessed I have an amazing boyfriend who won't leave me when I will have a newborn, but at the same time I feel guilty.. Sorry rant done..