Anyone have any tips on how to make my husband not live like such a pig. he seriously does not clean…
Anyone have any tips on how to make my husband not live like such a pig. he seriously does not clean up at all. He will drop something and just leave it on the ground. it could be tools, food, garbage. he doesn't even put his dirty dishes in the sink. I'm so fed up with this. he's been this way since the beginning of our relationship and I'm about to snap. I can't even catch up on the cleaning and he will tell perfect strangers that I don't do anything because our house is a mess. He won't help at all... like at all.
Cynthia silva·
Uhmm sounds just like my boyfriend haha but he puts the excuse "I clean at work" 😂
Isha Lena Broadway·
Мама дочки-младенца
flick him on the forehead everytime he does it.. pretty much treat him like a child because that's how he's acting.. holy hell girl I would be dragging him by his ear back to his mess to clean it up 😂 good luck though.. I wish I had real advice for you!
missing369user·
Мама дочки-младенца
Kill him. He won't make a mess if he's dead
Melissa·
В ожидании первенца
Don't clean up the things that won't leave germs. Basically only clean the things that will cause ants or unsanitary conditions (food, wet towels, etc.) The rest of the stuff like tools that won't be unsafe I would leave until he picks them up. He will get really annoyed and hopefully pick them up himself
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
girls, he's a tornado. I have tried leaving the messes and he will just push it to the side and add to it. he literally will not clean up. I'm packing up the house alone with a two year old and he hasn't even tried to help me when he gets home. I have to switch gears to get dinner done and he just plays around. he hasn't lifted a finger to help and yet feels the need to remind me how much work I have to do. I cannot win. I have even talked with his mother about it and she simply said, "he's always had his sisters to do everything for him so he just isn't the best at staying on top of things. he knows how to do it right. you guys are one now so where he falters, you have to pick up the slack." I looked at her and was like that is literally impossible. there are not enough hours in the day. @missliss @mamesey @littlemissrainesmommy @cynthia18
Melissa·
В ожидании первенца
Do you have a huge basket or box where you can put the things he leaves around? That way it's out of the way and clean. Then you can put the box in the garage or on his side of the closet. Somewhere it will inconvenience him
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@missliss, I've tried getting cute little crates that I have in the entryway for him to empty pockets and put stuff in when he gets home but he has never once used them. I am going to have to try that. I have half the mind to the throw everything, garbage included into a box and empty it onto his side of the bed hahahaha
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I have also though about getting a giant chalkboard and assigning chores but I don't want to be demeaning
Melissa·
В ожидании первенца
Lol the bed thing would be amazing lol just put it somewhere where it is in his way and not yours. Then don't touch it, just keep adding stuff. You can also tell him that your OB said you need to take it easy, because you're far enough along where strain can put risk on you. He's not pregnant, you are
Isha Lena Broadway·
Мама дочки-младенца
do to him what my mom used to do to get me to finally clean. she literally went through my room with a garbage bags and threw EVERYTHING away. well minus things that I actually needed. but you get what I'm saying.. or just take all of his stuff and not give it back to him, make him earn it. he's acting like a brat smh.
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@missliss, I have a high risk pregnancy. the doctor straight up told him herself that he needs to help out without me even saying anything to her about the situation haha this was months ago. @littlemissrainesmommy I told him if he leaves anything laying around at all, I'm selling his Xbox which he never uses but I will do it.
Isha Lena Broadway·
Мама дочки-младенца
I don't blame you@