So what are you supposed to do when you get these kinda messages from your OHs ex?!

Question is do you believe her. I'd sit him down and go through them see his reaction and I'd block her either way you don't need this coming through your phone right now X

I have blocked her now! But I mentioned it to him and he denied it obviously, but she's done this before and she's even teamed up with his mum to try and split us up😳 there's something fishy about it, she sent me some texts the 'he' sent her and it's nothing like his typing and it's on two different phones...x

maybe shes just jealous... especially if shes got kids with him... just speak to your partner and enjoy your pregnancy hun xxx

Either way block her you really don't need it, it's really unkind to stress and worry you whilst pregnant to get at him. Follow your gut instinct if he is cheating you will know deep down we always know. Glad cut contact she sounds spiteful

I'm not with my baby's dad and I get msgs like this all the time from different girls claiming he was cheating etc then others saying loads of bullshit about me! I split up with him for a reason and couldn't be doing with the stress whilst pregnant. Yet I still get msgs off random girls every other week claiming to be his new girlfriend, telling me I don't deserve a baby and how I should give it to him! 😡👊🏻 I just block them all x

She's a horrible human being and it's not the first time she's done it to me in all honesty. She's done it so many times before, that's not even the worst of it, by the looks of things she's been texting her phone off another phone things and making it look like to be him, I know he's not dumb enough to cheat on me, but I can't figure out if this is true or not!x

A baby and mother is more than text messages that seem to be negative based. Whether it's true to a degree or massively false, this is not the time to decide and she should know that. A woman who's had children herself should know this too, and respect your pregnancy and wish you well. Rather than listening to her judgement perhaps the father will feel and treat you differently with your child as he is with you. Why should she care enough so much to inform you of these things? It's not her concern. She's trying to convince you he's not good enough. Doubting his ability to be a father and putting self doubt onto you and your unborn child for whatever reason whether she is envious of your relationship it doesn't matter she shouldn't be contacting you and making you feel like this In your pregnancy. If there's reason to be concerned you will figure it out without her. X