So my 4 year old just looked at me and says I hope my baby brother dies in your belly.....I ain't…

Wow. That's really sad. My son was SO excited about his baby brother. Just remind your 4y.o that baby will you need you more but she'll always be your number one and that baby can't wait to see her! Maybe she doesn't understand what she just said.

@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, no she did cause I asked her what she meant and she said she wants her baby brother to die and goto heaven all I know is the devil flew through me when she said that idk how to take that cause I'm not gonna censor it it pissed me off bad like I can't even look at her right now I'm disappointed I guess but still pissed

=[. Hmmm... Are you doing mom & daughter dates? Make sure you find a "gift from baby brother" to give her when you deliver so she'll be happier about the baby coming into the world.

I have me and her have gotten closer that's why I don't understand and before this baby I had a miscarriage so it's a very hurtful thing to say I'm worried not gonna lie @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom

She'll get over it. It will take time though. When baby starts kicking let her feel the kicks and you can tell her that's brother's way of saying hi and that he loves her. Just include her in all of your activities. If your doctor allows it, let her go in for one of your doctor appointments to hear the heartbeat or see baby in an ultrasound. Remind her she's your number one and that will never change.

I have a fetal heart Doppler and on Wednesday nights while my husband is in class we lay and talk and listen to the baby's heartbeat and she's been in with me while I had all of my ultrasounds and unfortunately feeling him kick isn't really something that may happen because I have a anterior placenta and feeling kicks are hard because of it but I include her in everything she knows she's my baby my 2 year old doesn't care either way but code name kid # 4 ain't to happy anymore about the new addition

@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom,

I had an anterior placenta with the itty bitty and my son and husband was still able to feel the kicks. Baby just needed to be in the right place for it. But I think as time goes on she'll get more excited. Hopefully by you being excited she'll get excited.

I hope :) @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom

I told my mom that at 4 when she told me she was going to have my brother. I didn't want a sibling. I don't know why I said that but I didm

Oh god I completely understand you on this one! Unfortunately I don't have a lot of patience with kids saying things like that. My little step sister used to always tell her mom how much she hated her and wished she would die. I guess I was raised differently. If I ever would have said something like that to my dad I would have been smacked. I understand taking her out and trying to have mommy- daughter bonding with her but I also believe in nipping it in the butt so she doesn't get used to saying stuff like that thinking it's okay because mommy will just take her out for ice cream the next day. At the end of the day, you're mom and you chose how you want to handle the situation. From everything you've commented it seems like you're a very active mom in your babies lives. So no matter what, don't forget you're a hell of a good mom! Even when your kid says some crap to you that makes you think otherwise.

To be honest with you it's a spiritual thing. You know we don't deal with flesh and blood but spirits! The devil was just trying to get to you and he will use any and everyone he can. Pray over that little girl because it's serious business. Rebuke that negative spirit trying to attack your household. And trust God! Ain't nothing too big for Jesus.

Thank you @christimary0 that's really uplifting to hear I've got her in her room right now letting her reflect

@lexy03212015, I will