So my son is a week old today and his dad finally asked about him yesterday.... I understand that he's on deployment and…

Has he had communication access in the past week? I know when my SO was deployed he'd go out on missions and I wouldn't be able to talk to him for weeks

@beccalynnn, he's on a ship. They have internet access. He can talk to everyone else except making sure his son is ok or even if he made it into this world safe and healthy

Oh well then that's messed up, I'd be pissed too! I didn't know if there were certain times with the navy if they didn't have internet access.. My SO was in the Army.

first deployment?

@beccalynnn, the only way we wouldn't have internet is if they put us on river city

@landuhzluv, no it's not his first deployment

I mean with a family..

😳😳😳 that's messed up!!! 😡😡😡 @kimberlynnn

@landuhzluv, me and him aren't together. And our son is his first child

@stashinavy, I'm so irritated with him.

Girl dealing with these military men is hard work!!!! I just cursed mine out Bc we live in va n he is spending money on storage in Florida just Bc his family is using it. 70 dollars every month!!! He gets me sooooo angry!!!! We are expecting a child n he can't seem to get his act together financially. He insists of taking care of his relatives instead of thinking about his family 😡😡😡😡 @kimberlynnn

N me n my munchkin in my tummy should starve so he can facilitate his relatives luckily I have his bank card so no money will be sent for storage next month so I don't know what's gonna happen 😡😡😡😡 n he isn't getting back this card Bc he cannot manage money!!! Grown ass man n has absolutely nnnoooo money management skills 😡😡😡😡😡😡 @kimberlynnn

@stashinavy, both me and my son's father are military. And some men in the military don't have their act together at all smh

Spend spend spend .... No budget is all he does ugh!!!! #annoying #no plans for the future b then after they leave the military they're broke!!! 😫😫😫😫

I meant to say this last night. I wasn’t pregnant yet when my husband went on deployment in 2014 to Sept 2015. But I will say this. When you are deployed, they train you to leave home at home. Focusing too much on it will cause a distraction that could cost you the mission or even death for your comrades. I was sexually assaulted in June while he was gone by the realtor who sold us our house the year before. It took all I had to tell him what was going on because I didn’t want him to worry. Up until that point, he never asked about his 7 year old daughter, his dogs, nothing. Just generic conversation.. the house, the bills, and work. I started therapy and his boss came and checked on me with some other soldiers. He asked if I wanted him to come home early. I said no. He finished his mission and came home in Sept as planned and by then I was okay. I’m all that to say this.. As prior military myself, I can tell you…If he asks at all, be happy and appreciative because in all honesty, we are trained not to think about home… Be strong. Be a mother to your child. Don’t get in your feelings about him not asking about the baby. You do you.

😡😡😡 girl bye don't even worry about his ass! You already know! But I get your frustration 100%! Hopefully things will get better and a little easier. I love you