So I just need a place to vent to... I know that my attitude and personality has changed since…

I know exactly how you feel 😭

see, that's honestly a bit much. I know there were some instances where I really pissed my husband off and he said stuff like that, but not during my pregnancy. what I tried to do is that when I realized I did something or maybe was being a bit much during my pregnancy or noticed I was acting differently I would just apologize cause we both knew it was gonna happen but it doesn't mean he didn't deserve an apology.

I'm not pregnant anymore @madibug96 I had my baby 3 months ago and I know I got more uptight but he acts like I'm the worst wife on planet off and pretty much said he would be happier without me and he's tired of my apologies. I could do something wrong 2 months ago and do something wrong today and he will say I'm awful everyday... I just don't know what to do anymore

I'm so sorry @mommy_1244 nobody should have to go through it

Even if you have changed he should never talk to you like that.

That's horrible. I really hope things get better for you. If you need to talk I'm always around as a listening ear

Oh sorry for some reason I thought I saw the numbers instead of the stroller.it sounds like there's more to it, I'd ask about marriage counseling and if he doesn't want to then he's got something else going on

Yeah he only wants to argue when he has been drinking. My dad wasn't around because he was an alcoholic so he knows that I don't approve of him drinking a lot and he just said well I'm gonna drink what I want when I want and don't need your lip. Some days I wish it was just me and my baby boy

@madibug96, @mommy_1244 @sandranatalia

I agree you should bring up marriage counseling hopefully you guys can meet in the middle. If not then maybe he just wants out for some other reason.

@mommy_1244, we've only been married a year so I feel like if we already need counseling then it just wasn't meant to be 😔

No don't think like that! you just may not know how the other person needs to receive love, read up on the 5 love languages! my husband and I aren't even making it to our 2 year anniversary without it. we're going soon. we should have gone way earlier though.

I was the same way with my husband. it was very very hard on our marriage but once I popped that baby out things were 100?tter. but I'm also bipolar so I still have my days...but it got easier for our marriage when I wasnt pregnant anymore

The time doesn't matter. Having a child can have an impact on a relationship for most people. Me and my boyfriend been together three years and we have two kids together 1.5 years apart and it's harder then ever. I wish we had gone for some kind of counseling sooner right now we're at the point to end it all for good