Would any of you ladies be mad if you found out your husband messaged a girl he dated a year ago…

Heck yea i'd be pissed

Hell yeah wtf. A big worry i will always have is when we fight him hitting up another girl for whatever the reason is.

Is he going to do that every time he's mad at you? That's what matter

Yea and when I was trying to talk about it he just told me to stop bringing up old shit and well It's only been 2 weeks since I had my daughter and I'm still emotional or idk I feel like me and him need to really learn how to talk to each other but this bothers me @winnie633 @kysonsmama @janlove

You might be a little emotions as well. We are emotional creatures as it is. I'm always emotional !!

And you know@kysonsmama @janlove @lae1988 wonder if the tables were turned how would they feel if we were messaging our exes...things like that is what drives women into the arms of others and they won't realize it until it's to late, then they'll turn around and say it's our fault.

Couldnt have said it better!!!! Like wtf. Men dont think! @winnie633

You're sooooo right! But in my house I don't play that! He sleeps on the sofa if he's mad! He can't leave the house because as sad as this might sound he knows I'll take myself and the baby away from his life! And my husband is just one of those man who can't live without me or his son. You gotta teach them!

He should be a little more considerate of her feelings man, i mean, the girl just gave birth for God sake she's still pretty emotional, do they know about ppartem depression? Smh, sometimes I wished men carried babies instead yes

Well he left at first because he was helping his friend and then that turned from him only supposed to be out till like 5 to him being out all night because we started arguing and yea your right if the tables were turned then it would be different and idk all I know is I am about to look for a therapist because he is gonna open up and talk and listen to me some how or another @janlove @winnie633 @kysonsmama

As long as he's willing to go@lae1988

Sounds like something a boy would do.

Also I don't accept any men's friend request on fb and he is steadily accepting females and I have access to his fb so he apparently accepts them before I see them but I know who is on there and who isn't lol I guess I sound controlling he has never cheated I just over think things I guess also he is always saying our daughter hates him cuz she fusses when he holds her well let's see it might be because he doesn't do majority of the work with her changing or feeding or burping or anything I do it all I let him sleep all night and I get up every two hours with her because he works idk I am wearing down quick @winnie633

@arlogreyson, exactly and he is 27 about to be 28 he really does have some growing up to do I guess it's true girls mature quicker than boys because I feel like I'm pushing 40 or something trying to be a home body not wanting to party a lot or anything and he has calmed down in a year but still this girl messaged him out the blue saying she just got his message from a year ago and it just made me think wth we was arguing that day only reason I remember a lot about last year is because of fb Doing the memories thing lol also it was a bad year for me we lost our son I was 5 months at the time I lost him and to top it off he was in jail when I lost him and I had to have him at a hospital with out my husband because he had to do time in jail then rehab for a 2nd offense dui because that's the law out here and he doesn't understand why I am the way I am