Hmmm ladies I feel like a old timer veteran mum. Had 4 babies and pretty much a lot of complications…
Hmmm ladies I feel like a old timer veteran mum. Had 4 babies and pretty much a lot of complications over those 4 that you can have. I have several health conditions too. So there are women suffering things I myself have had. I try to give advice a lot! Pregnancy is a stressfully nervous time. I'd rather be honest with people where possible. I'm not a know it all- for u saw my pregnancy notes you would cringe at why I'm doing it again! As does my midwife.
I have a clotting condition
Previous pre eclampsia 3 times inc HELLP in one too.
Post partum haemorrhage
4 lots of retained placenta one needing a emergency d&c 11 days later.
Severe uterine infections, breast abscess
Ante natal bleeding
Cervical polyps uterine polyps
Small gestational age baby
Large gestational age baby
One with a blood issue post birth needing scbu for two weeks
Two inductions pre term
3 membrane sweeps
Severe spd pgp and sjd
Joint hyper mobility syndrome
Numerous drug allergies
Severe post partum anxiety, depression and puepural psychosis requiring 3 admissions to a mbu
The list goes on. My pregnancies have ranged from mild and easier to sheer odd agony no one understands.
So if I post on your messages I'm only here to help not to talk down to you or upset you!
I'm a very honest person. But realise tonight a comment I made to someone must have upset them as I have been blocked. I'm afraid there are some people about who are very anxious and find pregnancy hard. Analyse every hour for babies movements and I feel ruin there pregnancies worrying.
If I thought someone needed to worry about something I would reply asap! And say so!
BANNED - Abbi·
Мама сына-младенца
I respect you for this! 🙏🏻❤️
Suzanna bishop·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Thank you @abbi_
Bethany·
Мама дочки-младенца
Awe woow hun!! That's a lot to go through! 😲 I had a haemorrage also:) Lost 3 litres of blood :) xx
Laura·
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don't worry. I wouldn't have even explained myself. some people are just far too sensitive. I was blocked once for telling somebdoy that i didn't think her bump looked too big coz she was a couple of weeks ahead of me and was about the same size and my baby had iugr. 😂
Suzanna bishop·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Not so much explaining myself to the person that blocked me. More so to those I do reply to in the future @tuftyturtle but yeah some people are too sensitive
kady·
В ожидании первенца
I wouldn't worry about it hun, some of us need all the advice and support possible especially when it's your first! some people don't need the advice and just take things the wrong way unfortunately. after reading your list above I can honestly say I'd appreciate any advice you gave me as who better to ask! xx
Suzanna bishop·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Thank you @deedee1988