So frustrated again.. My stress levels go through the roof when we stay with my mother. Sorry if…

So frustrated again.. My stress levels go through the roof when we stay with my mother. Sorry if this turns into a rant but I'm so done with all this.

My mum has had tonnes of time and opportunities over the last 6 months since finding out I was pregnant to sort her house out and with 3 months to go until my little man is here she thinks is acceptable to put it off! I want her to sort it by my due date if she even thinks my little man is coming in this house. We've tried helping her we've cleaned and her CPN has had people come in to clean the house and it goes back to the same state each time. I made her get rid of the cat because he was peeing all over the house and the dog is on a waiting list to be removed because he toilets in the bathroom and she doesn't clean up after him properly despite walking him every night! The bathroom is state because of him that I refuse to use the bath when I'm here. I spend most my time down my oh because this a major problem and despite everyone helping she's throwing it back in our faces and its stressing me out.

I put my name on the housing list and they took forever with my form so I rang them and they told me that 3 weeks ago they sent me a letter and had records of it being sent on their system. I never got no letter and I think my mum hid it or binned it because she doesn't want us to leave every time I bring it up she gets arsey with me :(

I've explained unless the house is sorted we don't have a choice. I get she has mental health problems and has most of my life and I was in and out of foster care because of it. We've tried helping but it's not making a difference. I don't get how she thinks it's acceptable to live like this.. She moans when I'm down my oh but when I'm here she sleeps all day.. And won't admit she needs help..

STRESSED!!!!! 😢 cared for both my parents most of my life. I think I deserve to have a life of my own now and I'm sorry if that's selfish but I won't be here forever to run around after her. I think because I've done it for so long she expects me to do it 😖