so my husband doesnt seem excited about having a baby. he has wanted one so bad and now that we are having one he just…

Yes. I think us women often forget they are going through so much emotionally within their self's too. They just show it in different ways.

it just makes me nervous cause i dont know how he will react once the baby gets here. @mommakaz

My finance didn't start showing excitement or much interest until I was 25 weeks. It took him awhile to come around and come/settle with the realization that this is happening. And he'll be a father. He's always wanted kids too, it just came as a bit of a shock. It always will, planned or unplanned. I think he probably just needs some time.

Talk with him, communication is key!

ive tried talking to hin and he just said that yea hes happy and excited but doesnt seem like it. this was a planned pregnancy. he wanted this so bad. he was so quick to start trying again after we lost the first baby. @mommakaz

We lost our first too and he wanted it so bad. I think even though it was planned and I gave him the new he still went into shock. He recently told me he kinda Shut down unexpectedly. Maybe he just needs some time.

hopefully things change once its comes close or once the baby is here. i just wish he could be honest with how he really feels @mommakaz

Guys express everything in such strange ways. I'm sure things will change. Stay positive and get not to put so much pressure on the situation. :) Good luck! and congratulations!!

thank you so much @mommakaz good luck and congrats to you too.