Something is on my mind and just want opinions from you ladies. How many of you have sent or received a text that made…

He's insecure obviously. Cause once she clarified what she meant he should've believed her. But instead he made it into a big deal. They probably need to work on communication and not only through text in speaking in general

She said they are married now and she needs to give their marriage more effort to make it work, but it seems to be the other way around. she works hard, has her license and provides for them. he stays home and plays video games all day and doesn't contribute. I just hate this for her. not to bring up his weight issue but he is overweight and she used to be until she had gastric bypass surgery. his reasoning for accusing was because he's insecure and jealous of how she looks now. 😒😒 @amaperalta03

That's so sad. I'm sorry to say but that's not the man for her. She's providing and doing everything while he's okay with sitting on his ass that's not fair. A relationship is a partnership and it seems like she's the only one whose trying. But there's nothing you can do cause your coming from the outside in and she will probably tell you that you don't understand what she's going though. My sisters husband doesn't work and she works 50-60 hours a week while he sits on his ass and tries to run her life. We tried to get her out that situation but she never listen. You sometimes can not help who you love

exactly. it's sad sometimes with what goes on in relationships. I was blind for a little while in my marriage back in 2011 but 6 months in was all it took and I realized I deserved better.. I hate being the one on the outside looking in but I know it's her life and I can try to give her advice but doesn't mean she will take it. she's even trying to have a baby with this man and I figured that should tell him something but it apparently doesnt. I'm sorry to hear that your sister is kinda going through the same thing. it's so difficult to watch, isn't it? when you know your family member deserves better than that. @amaperalta03

Yes very difficult. We just need to stand by and be ready for when ever our sisters are ready to leave so we can halo and support them

Wow, if she's never given him a reason to think she's cheating then it should've been a dead issue once she explained it. Even if it said meet me for dinner, it still could've been for him. He's obviously insecure because it seems like she's more together than he is

@bianca_rose he doesn't have his car or his license so they couldn't meet out anywhere for dinner.. because she is the one who has to drive him everywhere. I honestly think it's sad in a way. that's just my opinion. when he asked her he should have understood that autocorrect happens every day, no big deal. but for them to be together for 9+ years and she's never given him a reason to think she's been unfaithful to him, and for him to act this way, I think she's being too easy on him.