I'm a single mum and it's defiantly the tiredness that's the worst. I found it hard and emotional in the beginning when she wouldn't settle and I was so tired and thinking that her dad was with his new girlfriend or asleep while I was struggling but I have lots of support so support is key! Xx
I'm on my own too and this is the second baby with my daughters father. I have been ditched before and don't it alone and I should've learnt my lesson. I found it so hard being alone and tired and had no family etc.
Aw bless you, don't think like that you won't let your kids down! It will be hard but it's so worth it. Have you got friends that you can get some support from? If not maybe try single mum groups then you can get some advice and just be able to have a chit chat. There's lots of single mummy's on here that are lovely to talk to xx
Oh god yeah. I'm trying to stay busy. But it is so hard! My daughters father has been in and out and out. Hadn't come to any scans till I paid privately to have the sex scan at 16w which I paid for. He buggered off with his mates to France for my 12 week one without me knowing and never said a word! He comes helps out then u never know when you will next see him. So I'm not holding my breath he will be about when I deliver. I'm having to save for a child minder for my other children too. Never thought I would be doing this at my age alone again. But he buggered off when I got sick after delivering my last child and went to hospital. I came home to him having packed and leaving. No argument nothing. He doesn't handle stress at all. Whereas I'm the calm one. Gonna be lots of tears panic attacks and depression lost deliver. I know no one where I live and my friends have disappeared slowly due to my situation
Christina·
В ожидании первенца
I'm scared of being so tired and emotional and coping, but I've raised these concerns and got some support in place x
Charmaine Louise Lay ·
Having the money to support my child and my self X
Becca·
I'm a single mum and it's defiantly the tiredness that's the worst. I found it hard and emotional in the beginning when she wouldn't settle and I was so tired and thinking that her dad was with his new girlfriend or asleep while I was struggling but I have lots of support so support is key! Xx
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
thats the thing @beccarossxx i have no family so i know ive to get used to having no support. i think im just scared ill let my kids down xx
Suzanna bishop·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I'm on my own too and this is the second baby with my daughters father. I have been ditched before and don't it alone and I should've learnt my lesson. I found it so hard being alone and tired and had no family etc.
Becca·
Aw bless you, don't think like that you won't let your kids down! It will be hard but it's so worth it. Have you got friends that you can get some support from? If not maybe try single mum groups then you can get some advice and just be able to have a chit chat. There's lots of single mummy's on here that are lovely to talk to xx
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
are you scared @suzie80 ? i am petrified. x
Suzanna bishop·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Oh god yeah. I'm trying to stay busy. But it is so hard! My daughters father has been in and out and out. Hadn't come to any scans till I paid privately to have the sex scan at 16w which I paid for. He buggered off with his mates to France for my 12 week one without me knowing and never said a word! He comes helps out then u never know when you will next see him. So I'm not holding my breath he will be about when I deliver. I'm having to save for a child minder for my other children too. Never thought I would be doing this at my age alone again. But he buggered off when I got sick after delivering my last child and went to hospital. I came home to him having packed and leaving. No argument nothing. He doesn't handle stress at all. Whereas I'm the calm one. Gonna be lots of tears panic attacks and depression lost deliver. I know no one where I live and my friends have disappeared slowly due to my situation