Macy Rodeffer struggled to get pregnant for four years. After three miscarriages, surgery and…
Macy Rodeffer struggled to get pregnant for four years. After three miscarriages, surgery and medication, she was excited to share her pregnancy announcement with the world.👶🏻
In a photo posted to Instagram that’s inspired “so much love and support,” she said, Rodeffer placed a baby onesie and sonogram photo inside a heart made from the vials of medication and injection needles she used during IVF.
She was inspired, she said, by a woman who staged a similar photograph last year. That story was first reported by ABC News.
“I really just wanted the photo to show…how difficult infertility can be,” Rodeffer told ABC News. “My photo contains the medications from just one round of IVF. There are a lot more people that go through so much more than us, all the while dealing with hurtful words, unsolicited advice, and judgmental comments. It was also a way for me to show my friends and family what we had gone through for our baby, when words didn’t quite seem to cut it.”
Rodeffer has blogged about her journey to motherhood on her website Martinis and Medicine. In her latest post, she celebrated her “first” Mother’s Day, though she acknowledges it will always be bittersweet because of the three babies she lost.
She explained that she actually hopes to adopt someday, as her mother and cousin are both adopted. “Adoption can be just as emotionally and financially painful as fertility treatments,” she said, noting that three families she is close to are going through the process right now.
Despite the criticism, she’s happy her photo has touched so many. “While my hope was to reach people with my story and raise awareness for infertility, I never imagined that it would reach as far as it has. There has been so much love and support poured out for us, and so many people now sharing their stories because of it,” she said.
Trying to conceive? Share your story in the comments below.❤️
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)
I sit and complain because I got pregnant again.... totally not ready and not in a very good situation. but seeing stories like these....I just am so thankful and need to humble myself with the blessing that I will be giving birth to for the second time. thank you so much for this! I really needed this this morning.
Lori 🍕·
u took the words right out of my mouth... with my last pregnancy I sounded just like you . @mdomke22
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)
I'm about to message you @mrsmord
Lori 🍕·
you can @mdomke22
emily·
Мама сына-младенца
Even though my pregnancy was a surprise, it's posts like these that help me to remember what a truly amazing surprise my baby really was. I'm so lucky that I'm able to get pregnant accidentally because there are women like this mom that try and try and try and still have trouble. I wish I could congratulate her in person on her pregnancy! How exciting ❤️
Rebecca·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
This is one of the many stories that put me down the path of egg donation and surrogacy. It's not an easy thing to go through on both parties ends, but it's so worth it in the end ♡ Currently 19 weeks pregnant with a surro baby boy for my intended parents in Spain
N.·
amazing story!
Stephanie·
Tried for 3 years and my IUI triplets will be 3 weeks on Wednesday. Happy, healthy & home!
RoRo 💖💜·
Мама дочки-младенца
hugs to all women who suffer from infertility issues
lady·
This post gives me hope still. I've only been trying for about a year in a half but it is definitely a lot. Congratulations to her and thank so much for sharing your story, I do feel like sooner or later I'll have a baby bundle of joy soon.