So my cousin funeral is the same day as my baby shower 😕😔!!! Her service is from 3-9 and my shower…

So my cousin funeral is the same day as my baby shower 😕😔!!! Her service is from 3-9 and my shower is 4-10 ! I had people ask me can I change the date and they know I can't. Everything is done. The only thing I didn't invite that many people from my mom side of the family so I'm not worried about how many people will show up I'm just feeling a way that I may not be able to show up to my cousin funeral.