☣I'm sorry in advance towards y'all ladies who are first timers this isn't directed at any of y'all…

Plus everyone's pregnancy is different so no one really knows what another woman is going through. The only thing you can do is be as positive as possible because the more negatives you have the worse the pregnancy will be. FTM here but I understand.

Right I just had some girl come at me talking about you don't know what your talking about bruh this is my 3rd count it 3rd pregnancy I know the ups and downs and the ins and outs I know it sucks and the bitchiness can be at a all time high sometimes but don't come at me talking about idk what I'm talking about.....you know but yeah pregnancy effects everyone differently I get that and I respect that but that's also why I said not directed at any of y'all @mellysmommy0805

You're due when I was with my first :) and my first was a girl too :) @mellysmommy0805

I'm hoping I have her earlier than that tbh like a week or two, because I don't think I can make it 😂😂 @studio.ghibli.mom23

Like I said in my post you do everything you can just to make it to 38 weeks @mellysmommy0805 it sucks it really does and no one really tells you as a ftm how much it sucks but it's so worth it in the end when your holding him or her ❤️❤️

I know. I'm so impatient. Trying to work on it but every week I'm inching closer and it drives me insane.

this makes me sad.. idk what constitutes as a FTM...like when you stop being a FTM.. but I remember when i was in the beginning. . these moms with 1 kid always told.me how hard this is going to be and how this is going to hurt and yada yada. .like stfu everyone is different. i get it

youre so right. im a FTM at 24 now. i was PISSED and still get mad at mothers who pretend like this journey is a piece of cake. not looking forward to the rest of the even more painful stuff but excited for my baby

What?!? I'm so confused @lilfree16 are you just reiterating my point or.....cause it sounding like you are it is hard and it does hurt but birth doesn't hurt not as much as everyone makes it out to and yeh everyone is different unfortunately pregnancy isn't one of those things that everyone is the same or I think it'd be a lot easier on all of us haha

@mrsnewman10511, it's just something no one tells you like I remember being pregnant with my first child and my best friend comes over hands me a overnight pad and says you gonna need those I was like huh!!!?! She's goes girl you bleed for so long and it's so unpleasant it's worse than a period my mouth dropped cause I was like no one told me this why....it's so hard to be a ftm it really is shit like @lilfree16 said when do you stop being a ftm cause overall pregnancy is the easy part it's raising and disciplining and trying your hardest not to laugh when they're 2 and they look at you and go "oh shit" but it's so worth it in the end I wouldn't take a damn thing over it I really wouldn't

no im saying I understand.. I get tired of other "ftm" telling me this is going to happen or this is supposed to hurt.. when i had my bad sciatica pain.. this girl said imma have to have a c section because I wouldn't be able to push the baby out..

Like I think people are just scared to "burst your happy bubble" but I wish someone would've told me how hard pregnancy was before I had sex the first time like omg it's not a cake walk but it is but like I also said I wouldn't trade it for anything

i guess shes a FTM because she only has one child.

@studio.ghibli.mom23 its extremely exhausting. . i had pregnancy brain and someone told me i was faking it. ..

Oh no no no no no no I would've slapped the taste of my hand into that persons mouth @lilfree16 like they would've walked away being able to tell me the taste consistency doness yeh no lol

lol ... but im sorry about the pain you go througg.. you're a strong mama..

@lilfree16, @mellysmommy0805 @mrsnewman10511 so are y'all pain is part of life it's our little reminder that hey your human God made us that way for a reason :) but we are the closest thing to him next to a child because of our ability to carry life and procreate

Lol I feel like a ftm everytime my oldest gets older. He will be 8 this year and now Im having my third but its a girl and this pregnancy is so different i feel like a ftm again lol.

First time moms do know how hard it is. Shit sucks. I have type 2 diabetes and Symphysis Pubis Disfunction im plus size I feel like shit on a daily basis. I think what you meant to say is you hate when FTM try and act like they know everything about being pregnant. Another by the way its several OB/GYN's that have never had kids and do know everything about being pregnant! They can only sympathize though not empathize. First baby don't mean you don't know nothing. I do know what you are talking about though. It's people that have had 4 kids and still don't know what they talking about because what may be true for them isnt for you.

@mrsnewman10511 my first pregnancy was amazing. I never had any problems and no pain. the only my feet swelled at the end. now this pregnancy is horrible! I'd give anything to feel like I did with my first lol I was out shopping every day, swimming, visiting family ect. this pregnancy I've been on strict bed rest since January :/

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Just because your a FTM doesn't mean you don't know. I'm struggling with the pain and other stuff everyday. I've had hip surgery which sucks while being pregnant because it causes more pain. I also have hypothyroidism which is dangerous to pregnancies it's amazing I've made it this far without losing her. And I also just saw my sister have her baby. No I do not personally know the pain of birth or after but I will soon. Just because a FTM hasn't experienced it all yet doesn't mean she doesn't understand. She will get there soon enough and what she's going through right now may be easier or worse than what you are. Never compare your pain or another. Everyone is different and everyone has different pain tolerances.