so I've been with my fiance forever never cheated never anything but why did he ask for a paternity…
so I've been with my fiance forever never cheated never anything but why did he ask for a paternity test.... I was like what the hell how do I take this.... I understand in the past he had a daughter he took care of for 5 yrs and ended up not being his but why bring that to our family..... should I argue or take the damn thing ..... I don't like this feeling...
Amanda Saraiva·
Мама сына (9 лет)
I say gracefully take it. When it comes back positive, just smile. He is tainted, and it's sad that he is bringing that to your marriage. I say just do it, and smile. You clearly love him, or you wouldn't be getting married.
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exactly what @damandakillion said. no reason to feel so bothered by it bc he just wants to be 100% sure.
New Mexico·
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just take it. it's going to come out positive anyway. no reason to bother bringing conflict and negativity into it
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
with my ex I agreed to one only to appease his family who insisted I was lying about the whole thing
Savannah Valdez·
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just take it, especially if you know it's his. ( not saying it's not) but if you know it's gonna prove him wrong, laugh at him and be like alright I will & that right there will just tell him it's his. and when the test comes back then there you go
Katherine Rangel·
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You should just take it. Even though it hurts he asked you. But you have to understand him like you mentioned he was taking care of a child that wasn't his. & although you know for sure its his. I would do it just show him and there's nothing to worry about. & that will make ur marriage stronger.
Andrea·
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@damandakillion, @mamaash @mommakaz @showersoverflowers @kathy218 thank you ladies for your input I am gonna do it! just pissed me off cause I wouldn't do that to him and I promised. but you gotta do what u gotta do he isn't getting dinner from the night we get the results he is making me food lol
New Mexico·
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my finance said that if he would have asked me and I would have refused he would have immediately thought that I cheated at some point even if it came back positive
Amanda Saraiva·
Мама сына (9 лет)
@drunky1993, now, if he asks for future children I would have a problem! I know a guy who had the same thing happen to him. He was devastated. I can't even imagine going through that. It's sad what some women do!
kammy·
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lol its really pricey and pointless since you know its his
Bianca·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Yeah you should just take it. I would just let him know that it hurts for him to ask but you do want to give him a peace of mind
Denea Moore·
Мама сына-младенца
Just take it...make his ass look stupid so he can spend his life making it up to u for being so damn silly lol