@mamivany4, I completely understand. girl I was taking these two boys to the zoo and park and spending at least $50 almost every Saturday for a month before I started dating their father. and that really ticked her off because they always went home talking about how much fun they had and they wanted to spend more time with me and their dad not her. I didn't do it on purpose! I just wanted them to enjoy the time they had with their dad!

@myfirstbaby97, and thats what breaks my heart because like myself i allow my husband to spend quality with his son because he doesnt see him often and then we spend the rest of the day we spend it as a family i adore kids mine or not to my eyes kids are a blessing and its sad that theirs some mothers dont see that not all step moms are evil

@mamivany4, and @stefaniamarie it could also be because when your step kids go back to their mothers they complain about having to go back and say they want to go back to dads or talk about how much fun they had at dads and it makes her mad and jealous so she tries to tell the kids things so they don't like it with you anymore. I went through that at first

@myfirstbaby97, im so happy you have an good relationship but this women decied to be bitter and lie about having my husband son when he is an amazing man she says she was immature because he decied to marry me but thats an innocent child i love children and can wait to get to know him and love him as my own i hope someday soon we can have a civil relationship with her because we plan to be in his life forever

@stefaniamarie i understand you my step son mom keeps questioning us like we wont love him or treat him the same as our own and im sorry i hope your sistuation gets better

@mamivany4, its hard because she tells my step son that our daughter isn't his sister and tries to make it seem like she's favored to pin him against her... She's just a rotten person

I'm so glad that me and my SO don't have to deal with a crabby ex like that. I love these two boys so much and it's not that we get along great with their mother but there isn't a whole lot of tension or harsh words either

@stefaniamarie, aww stay strong at first i saw it as omg but now i feel like my unborn son will have a big brother so in a werid way it will work out kids are blessings i see it but the mom is a different story but i wish you the best im here if you need someone because at first its hard but within time everything will set in its place

awe I feel for you, my husband and I are going through a nightmare right now with my step son..