So anyone else having the problem where after u have the baby , your husband seems to be like done with u like ok u had…

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@thenykaf, does it make u sad and emotional like why is he not acting the same like he seems cold or distant I'm sounding like a selfish. Person I just wanna know why he's being weird now . I feel like I'm just a baby machine and that's all he wanted and now he got what he wanted and he's done it's starting to make me feel and look at him diffrent

@babyboy449, they think the mother should do everything and they can do whatever they want like go out with friends leaving u behind .. Thats how some guys are sometimes and I hate it my self

@thenykaf, well he hasn't left to go with friends or anything it's more emotionally he's not here for me anymore and he thinks he is but , he's not and it hurts my heart I may be just over sensitive but , I wish he would understand I just came out of c section and need him and baby as a unit not just baby cuz I've got baby I just need him emotionally so I don't feel alone I dunno maybe I'm just being weird

What should he be doing that he isnt doing now? or rather what do you want him to be doing?

@babybearblue2, I think it's just me being more emotional wreck lol I mean he's doing a good job it's just emotionally it's prob just in my head but emotionally I feel like he's detached is all .

@babyboy449, its notmql to feel that way. my sister felt it after her birth takes a few weeks to recalibrate. its a big adjustment

@babybearblue2, thank you for telling me it's ok I was feeling like I was crazy or something . ❤️