Ok this is for moms who tore during labor, when u guys had sex after labor for the first time did it…

I'm 3 weeks pp and my SO tried sex and it didn't hurt (but we're not trying it anymore cuz we realized it's very unsafe). I tore on the outside going all the way up my labia and the stitches already dissolved

I'm 4 weeks pp this Sunday & we haven't really gotten to try it I think my SO is more scared for something to go wrong than I am @hanna_lynn

@jessmarlene26 I would just try it to see how it goes

Ok lol did u use lube or anything? @hanna_lynn

it hurt me and still a little sore for me. so i have lube that really helps

I tore and the first time we had sex it hurt. hubby was understanding and we stopped as soon as I became uncomfortable. we tried again a few weeks later. go slow, if it hurts stop and don't rush into things.

I'll just say wait the full six weeks, and coconut oil works miracles lol.

7 weeks didn't hurt at all no lube or oil

no you should be fine. I'm sensitive to alot of stuff even latex so I didn't use anything special to help like oil or lube.

It hurt 4 weeks pp then didn't hurt again