@mommy2b558, thanks for the advice. i needed it ! 😀

stand up for what's right for you and your child. The best advice I can give you is TAKE CARE OF YOU. DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU. and live with no regrets. I don't feel bad for leaving him. He always tries to guilt trip mw but I don't feel bad at all. He started dating other women weeks after we broke up lol . he's a joke

I always wanted to be a mother so now everytime I see a family I jusy want to break down....I feel so stupid but we have to stay strong and be better for our babies. plus babe, you're only 18 weeks along. there's a very long journey ahead

@mommy2b558, I feel the same way. Never would of imagined. fml 😒

Me either. I'm a mess......he barely does anything and he's already dating other women. now I'm just one of these women I thought I'd never be. fml

Absolutely hun, don't write it off yet, you never know what could happen. sometimes men just need time to grow up and then sometimes you just gotta move on and realize that you and baby are better off but that doesn't have to be a bad thing.

@maybaby2016, aww that's wonderful. I do hope things change for the best. especially for my child.

@sweetpea_nut, thanks. & you are absolutely right. His loss!

The same thing happened to me but he eventually came around when my son was about two. my son is now 11 and he lives with his dad and is doing very well. life is long, nothing is permanent....even if your baby's father doesn't step up, things can always get better. 😊

You're not alone. It will be ok though. His loss.