Can I vent ? Omg someone please COMMENT! 😡😤
So my hubs family lives in Mexico (everyone but him) they've never met me. So idk why tf they don't like me! 😤 (I'm OVER IT) today he told them we are having a girl. & quickly they said. "Oh they probably messed up, watch it's going to be a boy when she is born". (His sister said that) & also "if she is a girl hopefully she looks like you) wtf bitch what's wrong is she looks like me?? 🙄 Next his mother said that 1pound is too little for how far I am. Which is BULLSHIT ! 😡 the ob said she is perfect. Like stfu! 😒 & lastly they are over here telling my husband "your going to name her like his .. " (idk what or how the name is spelled bc I heard it & I was like wtf is that? How do you even say that) it's OUR CHILD back tf off! I already choose the name . (I feel so fucked up for saying this but I don't even want them near me child or to even meet her .)
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Yes , I hate her because she trying to make my life so impossible. She used to show up to his job & his fam would give her his number so now we share a phone so she won't talk to him. But she isn't allowed we contacted the police @hai0122
Oh no he only takes care of his mom and he only sends money for the most important things and that's bills and medicine!! @elizondo.sarid el
that is crazy they still talk to his ex!!
Lol that's bs tho , bc your ass got hands & feet get your ass to work right? I know it's poor & stuff but look this is how bad it is.. His mom is Del rancho & she doesn't even know how to cook shit . 😒 @mommyof5kayla
Girl that's how it is in Mexico if someone over here works none of them work because they know they will get money lol
@hai0122, yeah I definitely get what you mean. He is the second youngest . But no one in his family works & they are perfectly good to work . They just don't because he literally los mantiene. So annoying. They put so much pressure on him & to be honest they only call him to ask for more money if he doesn't send them every 8 days. I bet they miss him . But I hate how they just use him. His mom just makes him mad because she talks so much shit about me & he always tells her to stop . Because she doesn't know me & he will be with me because his happy with me. & I tried to talk to me so they could see am not that bad. But after I found out they talk to my hubs ex girlfriend I stopped trying because no bs . She stalked my husband & his family tells her everything is so fucking annoying. We had to put a restraining order on her.
Lol @mommyof5kayla seriously all Mexican suegras are mostly like that
Dang yup that's why they are mad because he don't give them money anymore fuck them amd yeah I told him to tell her shit and he has he will stand up for me and lately she won't talk to me I'm due in like 4 weeks or less and she won't even come need me lol
But I mostly think they are jealous because the probably miss him more than you can imagine. My husband is so close with his mom he calls her every day and she's kinda like his best friend and I used to get mad at him like I thought it was really weird lol but now I try to understand because that's her baby boy and she just really misses him.
but that doesn't mean they should disrespect u in any way i would try to talk to his mom
My husbands family lives in El Salvador and they are really nice to me and have a lot of respect. I think maybe they could be jealous because they miss him and you get to be over here with him and they dont! At first my husbands mom was jealous of me mostly because she missed him so much and I got to be over here with him...but he would never let anyone disrespect me just like he wouldn't let me disrespect them so I think that takes a big part of why they have so much respect for me... My husband sends his mom about 400$ a month to pay her bills and medicine and it bothers me as well because he dont have papers and he dont make a lot of money but I just put it in Gods hands as long as he takes care of my daughter and I then i try to stay out of it.
@mommyof5kayla, that is so fucking rude ! To me is like why does it matter? If your son is happy why can't you be happy for him ? Is not like we treat them like shit right ? So they need to back tf up. My mother in law is just mad because even since we been together my husband obviously buys me whatever . & he used to send her 500 a week to Mexico so she can have the life of a queen. & since we been together he doesn't send her that amount anymore he sends her 200 . (Which its good because that's still a lot in Mexico) she is a gritty bitch. We need money to buy our princess stuff too she doesn't fucking see that.
My mil tells my husband she hates the name I picked for my son she said we should name him a Mexican name and I told look this is my baby imma name him whatever I want to even if it's white to her I don't can she can find the Mexican way to call him but other then that imma keep the name I picked for MY SON and he agreed sometime your just have to put your foot down and say enough is enough fuck them they just mad because he found a girl who will be there shit my in laws well mil and sil don't like and we been together almost 4 years now we had 3 miscarriages and my mil told my husband hood because your stupid to have another kid because already has 2 with someone else like really why would you say that this time around we didn't tell her till we were 6 months pregnant
Oooo yes they're definitely Hispanic, my family can be difficult sometimes also, just be thankful you don't have to deal with them 24/7. Lol (btw I'm Hispanic)
@elizondo.sarid, you're welcome. When they try to be negativity just be nicer. Kill em with kindness!
@mamaash, he does but they don't care . He told me to ignore them that they were like that with all of his ex. He can't even stand them sometimes
@ftm0622, they are . My fam is crazy lol but see the difference mine doesn't say shit like that to him or about him . They are just happy for us
@lovebuggg2016, yeah thanks Hun :) I really try but they always want to ruin my day with there negativity
@lilfree16, I guess so, & bc his mom wants me to give him papers.. She is the gold digger.. She wants us to go live over their or go visit .
idk why but some Mexicans are sooo judgmental! lol I'm Mexican too and it's hard to deal with my family 😩
Screw them and what they have to say. That's your baby, and you have every right in the world to name her whatever you please or not have them around. One pound is perfect for 20 weeks. Do you boo boo!
ohh.. soo you're too American for them? does the mom plan on coming over when the baby comes?
I'm fully Mexican . But I've been here all my life . So they think all I want is his money & stuff. @lilfree16
they are probably little dickheads.. are you mexican also? i know some families hate when you mix nationalities,
Lol @hai0122 I tried she won't face me ! 😒