ok i need advice from you moms out their i just had my son almost a month ago and my sons father has a daughter from his x hes 16 years older than i am he and his daughter never has had a relation ship with her untill just recently he has told me she want to meet him and wants to get to know him but thats not all she also wants to meet me and she says she wants to meet her little brother? how do i react to that i have never been in a situation like this part of me want to not involve my son in this situation and say he has no other siblings if anything just a half sister im not sure if i want them to have a relationship i know its not the daughters fault and hasent done nothing to me idk i just need some advise she is also only 3 years younger than i am how should i handle this help😧😫
I feel like when you get in a relationship with somebody who has kids whether they're young or old you're not just taking on that person you're also accepting their kids, because they are part of your spouse
Personally I would meet her first and if she's a decent person I would absolutely let her be apart of my son's life.But I would for sure want to see what kind of person she is first
I personally have two half siblings and love the fact that I know them. I say meet her and if all goes well let her meet him. As long as she won't harm ur child I think you should let her be apart of his life. But it's all up to u good luck