ok i need advice from you moms out their i just had my son almost a month ago and my sons father has a daughter from his x hes 16 years older than i am he and his daughter never has had a relation ship with her untill just recently he has told me she want to meet him and wants to get to know him but thats not all she also wants to meet me and she says she wants to meet her little brother? how do i react to that i have never been in a situation like this part of me want to not involve my son in this situation and say he has no other siblings if anything just a half sister im not sure if i want them to have a relationship i know its not the daughters fault and hasent done nothing to me idk i just need some advise she is also only 3 years younger than i am how should i handle this help😧😫
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thank you so much for ur advice it honestly touched me and i totally agree on evrything you said @babyointhemaking and thanks evry one else for ur opinion and for ur thoughts i really appreciate it i just have to take things as they go and go from their i just have to start taking it all in and no it isent going anywhere 😊thanks again evryone
always support their relationship, always encourage them to be involved in eachothers lives, never keep your child distant thats a part of both of them as well. i know its new for u but u have to also be the bigger person & put urself in their shoes, im sure everyone is uncomfortable for now, but nothing wrong with u all building a family bond, its not about anyone else but u 4 & i agree if ur going to be with this man, ya kinda gotta make it comfortable some how... better now than later, u arent her mom, your her half brothers mom but u can still bond & be friends, thats what step parents are best for. just speaking from personal experiences, good luck
I would get to know her before you introduce her to baby. js.
Well there's no excuse with this! I have a SO who's older than me and also has a grown daughter, there relationship isn't good but they been building it! And she knows about having a little brother she's okay with it and even said she would love to be apart of his life! We talk send pictures of him because she's in Atlanta! I have no problem with her building a relationship with our son! And she's respectful and I tell him he has a half sister! So I see nothing wrong with it! I am sure you knew he had a daughter ahead of everything. She is apart of him and I think you should try building a relationship with her!!!
Well I believe that if your planning on being with this guy for the rest of your life then it shouldn't matter if they just recently started having a father daughter relationship .you should encourage them to continue the process and you should want to be included in that since if you ever want to marry him she will be your child then too
if it was me i would just tell him to handle his business and leave you out of it. you have your own life, not that you dont care but youre busy. if their relationship grows bigger perhaps you can start bringing her into your personal lives if you want.
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