So I told my MIL the other day that my husband wanted another baby shortly after Sofia is born and…

frankly I would've told her nothing I know some of the older generation is not a big fan of having babies back to back ...

Honestly, I said it in a joking way just expecting a laugh so that's why it made me even more mad... I mean I really don't care what she thinks... It was just an annoying way for her to respond. @vicky810

ohhhhh I see 😏

My mother says this to me all the time and i makes me so angry!!! Like no one told her not to have 9 kids all back to back but she's tellinh me not to have any more after this one!! We only want 3 kids and want them all to be close in age.

@alfysmommy, Exactly... My nieces (SO's brothers kids) are almost 4 years apart... So I'm not sure if she thinks that we need to have them that far apart... But we don't want that at all. We want all of our kids to be close in age. I swear if she asks me if I'm on birth control after this baby is born I'm just going to be like "that's really none of your business"

Lol I've never been on birth control and she knows that and keeps suggesting it!! and I keep telling her no!!! I'm almost 34 so I don't want to be older and put myself and my child in danger. My mom had her last son at age 46 and it was a very dangerous pregnancy.

that's good hes all for it (: hopefully he helps

my husband is such a great dad to our twins he's always helped me since day one <3

we're gonna try again when. their five

i want five kids In total

Well as long as no one else is footing the bill for you or your kids then they need to keep their opinions about the size of your family to themselves!

@alfysmommy, see that would be horrible! I can't imagine having my last child that old.... I'm not trying to be 65 when my kid graduates high school.... Not to mention the complications...

@ktwins188, I am definitely glad that he wants more babies and that we're on the same page... I know he's going to be such a good daddy☺️ but I think I would want to wait a little bit longer if I had twins... I have a friend who had three babies within 4 years and then they got pregnant with their 4th... Thought they were having a miscarriage at 14 weeks... When they went to find the heartbeat, they found 2! So they ended up having 5 kids under 5! That's craziness, lol😂

@harrisonpartyof5, preach🙌🏼

We refuse to use BC again unless we have to try it in order to concieve like we did this time. We had a very hard time getting pregnant and do not plan to use any form of BC. No reason to prevent another baby when we know we want one. My MIL knows we don't plan to use BC and she doesn't like it. But guess who doesn't give a f**k? 🙋🏻🙋🏻🙋🏻 Tell her to mind her own business.

@darianweaver, that's exactly how I feel! Our mother in laws should just be happy that we're giving them grandbabies😂

Amen! 😂