I just don't understand my MIL sometimes.... Like how can you not change your sons poop bag all…

smh that's dangerous for him. Ostomy care is very important.

@arivera64, I don't know much about it, but common sense tells me that he is going to get really sick or someone else will because of the Bactria that's in poop. and especially for him because its in/on his body. they had a nurse coming to the house when he first came home from the hospital, and it was always being taken care of and now its not. the nurse even asked her if she wanted a social worker to come to make sure she had it under control since my BIL can't really talk/explain himself or things going on(he's 40, but has the brain of a toddler)

When my mom had colon cancer we had to changed her colostomy bag everyday so she wouldn't get an infection. Its called suck it up and do it! That's redic she waits that long

so sad! what is wrong with him if you don't mind? Also he NEEDS TO BE TAKEN CARE OF PROPERLY! what is she THINKING?! He is disabled and that's not only abuse but also nasty and ignorant. that could cause a lot of health problems and isn't good to breathe in at all!

first off that is considered neglect, and she could actually face charges for not caring for her son properly, if she can't handle it. any facility will.

@kreese88, she's only doing it 1-2times a day if that. his bag is always filled. @mygiftof2016 when he was born he lost oxygen to part of his brain(the cord was wrapped around his neck for 3days. It was in mexico so there was no doctors) so basically he can do what a normal person does like eat, bathroom,shower ect. but can't talk properly, we can barely understand what he says. @purplemissed exactly! I've told my husband before since nobody else will care for him, there's always nursing homes that will.

omgosh! of she can't take care of him proper get someone else that can! he doesn't deserve to be treated that way poor man! terrible