RANT ! Okay so done already and the day isn't even over.. Mother is being no help at all. I put a…
RANT ! Okay so done already and the day isn't even over.. Mother is being no help at all. I put a load of my washing in and the wet clothes are too heavy for me to carry up the stairs especially with a bad shoulder. She hasn't bothered to help me carry them up. So now I got to wait until my oh comes back so he can help me put them in the airing cupboard. The carpet on the stairs needs shampooing as its stinking! I've agreed to shampoo it like I always do! as long as she hoovers it as the is too heavy for me to manoeuvre on the stairs without falling. She's made excuses about that too. The whole house is stinking all I do is clean and she never keeps on top of it.
Yesterday she waited all day for me and oh to come up just to go up the shop and get toilet roll when it's 5 mins around the corner because she's too lazy to go herself. She does it all the time makes excuses to send rob up so she doesn't have to.
Me and my oh currently having issues with housing, his one bed flat is ok for us currently but won't be appropriate when baby is here. So we are looking to view a 2 bed flat soon but that could go either way. So we may have to stay with my mother which at the moment I don't want to do because she can't keep on top of cleaning when we do it and let's the dog shit in the bathroom when we are not here ! And doesn't seem to realise how disgusting it is and how unsanitary so I'm making her rehome him. She won't ask for help for her depression. And expects me to bring our baby here and is now making me feel bad about the fact me and my partner are exploring other options! Feel like banging my head against a brick wall. If she asked for help and kept on top of things it wouldn't be this way...
Sorry in advance ladies I'm so stressed about this :( she's had my whole pregnancy to sort the situation. 3 months is not a lot of time at all and she's acting like she's got forever
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
the 1 bed flat will be better than staying with your mum, baby will be in your room anyway for upto 6 months just have massive clear out in flat and make do untill u find a 2 bed @robotunicorn
Shona·
Yeah that's what we are going to do if the situation doesn't change. We are at our wits end. I've even thought about contacting her mental health team because it's not right. :( love her to bits but it's inexcusable @tg123456789
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
you may need to as end of day ur going to have a child and that be main reaponsibility and dunt wanna be stressing out having to worry about ur mum too @robotunicorn
missing240user·
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I'd deffo go for the 1 bed flat for now, rather than put up with that! Big hugs hun, hope you get sorted asap x
Shona·
@assmner, Yep. She's got three months we've tried our best she's had more than enough time. But it's what we will have to do. Last thing I want is my little boy getting sick :( thanks Hun xx
Shona·
@tg123456789, yep it's like she hasn't registered that yet. She wants the baby here but I've explained unless it changes it won't happen. @tg123456789
Kate Smith·
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Stupid question, feel free to rant at me :) why not bring the laundry in batches? that's what I do as I don't want to ask for oh help all the time. but yes, mothers are annoying, I couldn't possibly live with mine!
Shona·
We don't usually have a lot of laundry as we split our time between my mothers and my oh flat usually do washing down there as don't have far to carry it as there's no stairs.
But yeah I'll just make a few trips up the stairs 😂 won't get done other wise @kate_smith yes they that's why I want out
Kate Smith·
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At least she isn't nagging you about stuff, mine is notorious for that. It would be 'eat this' and 'don't eat that' and 'spend time with me' and 'why did you and oh close your door if you aren't asleep' and 'what you're doing is a waste if time, do this boring thing instead'... xx
Shona·
That's true.. Oh wow I couldn't deal with that at all would drive me crazy 😱 @kate_smith it's Islam me telling my mum what to do