Just a rant. Keep scrolling if you don't want to participate lol
Just a rant. Keep scrolling if you don't want to participate lol
GRR! OMG! Are you fucking serious!? Today was a horrible day. I've been so stressed out while Jock has been at work. The baby has decreased his movement so much. I'm so stressed out and worried about it! I've been relaxing all day. Tried every "trick" in the book on how to get him to move around. But, nothing. My ride to the hospital fell through. So I had to wait till he got off of work at 6 to give me a ride to L&D. He gets home and gives me the silent treatment, forgets to bring me dinner, and doesn't bother asking how me and the baby are doing or feeling... I started cramping really bad. So I decided to take a bath and relax before we went to the hospital. I asked him to help me in and out of the bathtub. He helped me in. Then left the house and his phone for an hour and forty five minutes. Comes back and lays in bed for another ten minutes. I called his phone again after 7 missed calls and 8 text messages and he ignored it. So I literally crawled out of the bathtub and it took me 10 minutes to put a shirt and shorts on. I walked to our bedroom in tears and asked him why he didn't come help me. I was waiting for 75 minutes for him to come get me... I couldn't get out by myself. His response was he worked all day and doesn't want to hear any lip from me. Then told me I have serious problems. WHAT THE FUCK?! He turned into a complete heartless cold asshole in a total of 11 hours. He was so sweet yesterday while we were shopping for baby stuff. Now he's threatening to take our son away from me because he can't "handle" MY bullshit... I'm sorry, but I don't think asking for help getting out of the bath is bullshit... First I was hurt and crying in the bathroom, now I'm just pissed off. He's lucky I have a heart or I would have kicked him out of MY house and let him sleep in his damn truck.
Rant over.
Sorry for all the craziness. It never gets this way. But, this time I had to just scream/write to someone. Even if it's just you ladies going through relationship bullshit too or you other ladies just thinking I'm crazy. lol
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aww I'm sorry mama. you know my son would go for days and I do mean days... without moving and i was worried about it but then he'd wake up from his long slumber apparently and kick me and move like no other. I'm sure babies fine. but of course get checked if you're worried about it. and as for your SO hopefully he apologizes to you bc that's really hurtful also could've done without the threats of taking your child away from you.. which makes no sense to me. you're the mother. but I'm sure things will get better. good days and bad days. 💘
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Thanks! it's really nice know that info about your baby. I'm a first time mom so I don't know what's normal and what's not.. I'm going to the hospital now. Finally. Just to be safe. Thanks, I think after a long day of working in the sun he gets crazy, like a hatter lol Right! good days and bad days!! Thanks!! @mamaash
Kelly·
Is the baby OK?
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his heart rate isn't where it's suppose to be. he's positioned in not the most ideal way right now. I also found out I'm hypoglycemic. and since I've been off my heart medication I'm extremely sick and fatigued. I'm going back for an ultrasound and testing on the 16th... he still hasn't moved. No movement since yesterday at 5pm. @nova887
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Dr said he's conserving his energy right now..
Kelly·
awww keep us updated. best wishes to you all.
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will do, thank you!! @nova887
Kirsten·
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wow I'm sorry :( that's the most hurtful thing when you're so happy one day and he's a dick the next.. I'm glad everything is okay with the baby. that was way to far.. threatening to take your child???? but why couldn't you get out of the bath?
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It definitely went too far. I let him cool off and he woke up at 2am and apologized to me. I was actually in a very severe skating accident two+ years ago and I had a lot of physical damage because of it. I actually shattered a knee and broke both ankles (along with A LOT of other things) and now that I'm caring the extra weight and my body is so sore and swollen, on top of being anemic and hypoglycemic, I was too weak and dizzy to get out on my own. He usually takes a bath with me. So I've never had the problem before. @kaidens_mommy
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Oh wow I'm sorry girl :( glad he apologized
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Thanks:) I'm glad too, he wasn't himself for whatever reason. and he came the the realization of that on his own. Thank goodness, I couldn't handle the silent treatment anymore. @kaidens_mommy