Boyfriend lied to me and said he was going to be at work till 5...well decided to go on a walk today…

Call him or text him? Catch him in the lie then go knock on his buddies door. Maybe it's innocent. Optimistically what if he got off early and thought I'll just hang out with a pal then head home I wouldn't have been home until x anyway. Or your suspicions are correct and you guys can hash it out.

Time to leave him. He's not going to grow up

@kreeblim, tried calling and texting him...no answer...I texted him and asked when he is going to be home and he said I already told you I'm not getting off work till later...like okay thanks! :( he is always gone on weekends when he has off to go out and drink with his buddies...even when I was close to deathly sick he left me to go jet skiing and later that night I ended up with a fever of 103.9...I understand taking care of a baby is hard..having to give up many things...but I don't think he's ready to be a dad...he puts his friends before his son...can't even put down the beer when I ask and when I need help the most he isn't there...wasn't like this till baby boy got here...and sorry I need to vent my head is spinning!

Yeah personally I'd go knock on his buddies door catch him in the act and then have a fight of all fights to fix that. :( I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

@kreeblim, I literally want to bawl now because I'm literally a big breast feeding mom and he brought a few buddies over and I'm over here topless feeding him and they are just laughing and everything else

Dude :( you're suppose to get to feel comfortable in your own place. I'm so sorry.

@kreeblim, not your fault :( Just upsetting....I don't see why it's even funny...