Lost my baby on the 3rd of May. Doctor has gave me the clear to begin trying again and me and my O/H really want too, but I am so scared. What if I fall pregnant again only to lose my baby again. I have very mixed emotions but I know I want to try again so that I have my rainbow baby as well as my angel baby. I'm just really scared in case my rainbow baby turns out to be my second angel baby.
How can I get over this fear? 💔😭
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Thank you all so much. It really helps to know that what I am feeling is normal and that it isn't just me. I wish you all the very best in your trying for families or to grow your families. xxx
I think once u have a loss the fear never goes away. I lost identical twin boys at 25 weeks. I've got the all clear 2 try again. I'm soo scared that when I get pregnant the same thing will happen again. I physically couldn't bury another child xxx
I still have fears but if I don't go on with my life I'm gonna get crazy :(
Thank you, I know I am probably just being over cautious and worried. Thank you all for your support xx
sorry for your loss.. I've lost my baby on 8of April... and I had the same words from the doctor.. I am trying now to get pregnant again but this feeling of loosing again I think is never gonna go away and we as womens never forget what happened ...still having days when I'm crying like a little baby :(.. just try and keep yourself optimist and know that if you've been pregnant once you gonna be again.. take care xx
I'm sorry for your loss as well. I hope you have a happy healthy baby soon. I know I'm just worried too but my O/H is confident that this time we will have our baby. X
I don't think the fear ever goes if I'm honest I had three losses and then my rainbow baby whoa nearly 4 and then I'm fortunate enough to be 26 weeks pregnant with another baby... I still worry everyday but the fear gets less intense as time goes on xxx
I also had a miscarriage on 3rd may and we have started trying again. I am so nervous but know that I can also have a happy and healthy baby too x
I spoke to my GP about how I feel once he told me we could try again. All he told me was that you are less likely to have a miscarriage again within the first 6 months of trying. Thanks for your support xx
maybe try some councilling hunni? it will be harder for you to conceive whilst you're feeling like this. take it easy and only try again once you feel ready to do so. sorry for your loss chick. here any time xx
Took me about a year so fully recover, even now I get upset sometimes but I'm not always thinking about it. Yes it's hard but I guess that's life and we have to move on X