I just don't understand man seriously you have a good woman in your life and you rather throw it all out just because he doesn't want to MAN UP and be a husband and just cares about himself forgetting that he has a family and a wife that needs him makes me wants to slap the crap out of him... I'm sorry your marriage is not what you expected mama none of it is your fault I know you wish things were different but apparently he doesn't give 2 craps about it just keep praying para que Dios te de fortaleza y la sabiduria que nececitas to make the right decision, love you 😘

exactly I just don't understand

I hope so 2 😔@michellevaldez4750

and mine acts like nothing is wrong too. It's rediculous. like he will talk so much crap to me and an hour later he's asking me what's wrong like nothing! I just don't understand!

I know :'( I hope he does too

@michellevaldez4750,

I have been doing that for years hun and still am he says he will change but I dont believe it he acts like nothing is wrong and it bugs so bad I just wish he would care just a little about how I feel I just wish he would change for our family

I know exactly how that feels. I feel the same way. It's really heartbreaking. I am still hanging in to the littlest bit of hope that I can make it work and have that perfect marriage :-\

its just so hard I always wanted the picture perfect marriage for my kids I have been here for everything and he doesn't see it I'm just so tired of being stepped on I hate my life and myself for what he has done to me I'm not the person I was I'm so sick and tired of this life @michellevaldez4750

I am the most laid back woman he will ever be with and he knows it. He has the nerve to call me a bitch and act like I'm so horrible. it blows my mind because I literally let him do whatever he wants because I want him to be happy and I hoped he would treat me better in return. but unfortunately he has not.

I know how you feel. I'm honestly getting to that point myself. If it wasn't for the kids I'd have been gone years ago. and I really think the kids and I would be happier if I was single. smh. it's sad. He will realize how good he had it too as soon as you're gone. they are so stupid sometimes to think we will just let them disrespect us for the rest of our lives. I really pray he wakes the F up and treats you right before he regrets it.

its not the first time hun @michellevaldez4750 this is just getting old I can't do it anymore I'm not happy

I'm so sorry :'( I will pray that you will be able to do the right thing for you and your family... I can't give you advice because everyone is different. I was able to work things out with my husband after he was unfaithful but for you it might not be what's best. I just hate to see marriages end :'( especially when there are kids. It's so hard.