getting tired of being put last..buy if I say anything I'm the terrible one..how much longer can I do this for?

Don't, you deserve to be first. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Don't put yourself last.

I know what you mean but I just do the know what to do..I'm always the bad person when I go to talk to him..he never spends time with us unless he's going to bed then we'll get like 20minutes with him I talk to him about that and he gets all mad @rachelle

You shouldn't be scared to talk to him, I just had this exact problem. I felt like he wasn't appreciating us and that he spent more time with his family. I felt like we were second to him and if were not first, we're last. That's not how it's supposed to be because I put him first so I deserve the same in return. Don't be afraid to make him a little mad as long as you get your point heard

I never do cause he never let's me talk and he turns it around so I'm the bad guy somehow..I battle depression he knows that and this is triggering it and he wonders why I'm always in a bad mood and sad I tell him and he gets madq

@rachelle,

Hun that's not good, do you think he's the one causing your depression?

not all of it no I've dealt with depression for like eight years

@rachelle,

Oh man, so do you know what's causing it?

mainly..we're living with his parents my room is so small we have on where to put anything his dad is the rudest person when I do something I have his mom watching everything I do..everything basically @rachelle

Hmm, you can't move out?

he won't