So Thursday I started calling all of my amazing aunts to tell them about the shower and while talking to one of them we…
So Thursday I started calling all of my amazing aunts to tell them about the shower and while talking to one of them we had a very long conversation about one of my cousin's and her 15 year old daughter! To make a long story short, my cousin got pregnant with this sweet girl while she was drunck and didn't even know the guy!! She never wanted the guy to be around even though he wanted to be there!! so for 15 years she has never met her dad nor his family. A couple of years ago we find out that one of our friends is related to her dad and as tried to have them meet but her mom refused!! 3 yrs later my aunt is looking for him and his family so we decided to tell her and she was soooo happy and is working on getting them to know her granddaughter. How can a mother be so cruel and not let her daughter know her father and his family!!! She is a selfish bitch!!!! Her daughter cries all the time and says that her father doesn't love her!!! I'm so happy I was able to help and I just want the best for this sweet young lady. She now has 2 brothers and a little sister!!!!
Silvana·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (20 нед.)
:')
Summer·
Мама дочки-младенца
that's so nice of you to do that!! I dont let my daughter see her paternal grandma but there for good reasons. But I completely understand where you're coming from. I could never do that to my daughter or her dad ever!
Aimee·
Мама сына-младенца
I don't understand that either. Even if I ever ended up hating my BD, I could never do that to my son. Unless he was dangerous or something.
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
wow! I agree 100% that is so selfish and messed up! how can you make your own child go through that for 15 years because you got drunk and felt like an idiot for f-ing a strange man? especially when the poor guy wanted to be there??? He could have fought for his rights but I can understand why he didn't. it's not fair to him or his daughter that they went 15 plus years without knowing each other :'(
Diana·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
Yes @rainbowbaby2015. I agree that if he's a bad guy or like @jensensmom said, if he's dangerous then I would understand but he's not!!! he was a good guy with a good family that was willing to be there for her from day 1!!! the last time they were around was for the baby shower and after that my cousin blocked them out!! She will pay for what she did and I'm so glad my aunt is finally doing something about it even if it's behind her back.