I need some input ladies. My boyfriends mom and I have not been on speaking terms for a couple months because she abuses…
I need some input ladies. My boyfriends mom and I have not been on speaking terms for a couple months because she abuses the medication she is on and it's just a huge mess. I could rant all day about it, literally.. Yesterday his mom gets admitted to the hospital for her Lupus because it's starting to cause her kidneys to shut down. I still want to maintain my distance because I don't want to feel like I'm being pushed into speaking to her, but I want to be there for him also. what would you ladies do if you were in my shoes? no judging please. I've already told him no matter if her and I are on speaking terms or not, I'm not keeping her granddaughter from her, so that's been established. 😳😖😞
Keora Willis·
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In the same situations but I refuse to have our son around her while she medicated and my so and I agree that it's best to she not around our child while medicated. Be there for him regardless of your relationship with his mother. Let him know you care
sherry S·
I agree, a babies safety is 1st always but, if she s willing to get help for her issues and has days where she seems okay and alert and not over medicated I would allow her to see the baby If she's in the right mind frame. Everyone needs hope for change but, her doing it and saying it are 2 dif things. I am 37 , I have 2 older sons , I've issues with their grandparents at times but, I won't allow my children's safety to ever be compromised. If they show interest in the child is a start and not just say oh I want pics of a grandchild and never spend time with.I wish u well
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thank you @deafmama16 I've told him the same thing about his mom. if she is medicated I don't want her coming around. she has her moments where she is okay and other moments when she's not. I also told him I don't want her holding our daughter while she is standing.. she will have to sit down. I feel bad for him because the relationship between his mother and him is now strained bc of everything going on. I'll just try to be there for him the best way I can.
Keora Willis·
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It will work out just give it time. @Jess icarose0602
Keora Willis·
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@jessicarose0602,
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thank you @nygirl3rdbabymiami I just want to take it a day at a time with her. that's all I know how to do. I've told him as long as she is in her right state of mind when she comes over she can see the baby. it's her first grandchild and I know that's important to her. a couple months ago she was real bad on her meds, she wouldn't let anyone distribute them to her. finally she let my boyfriend and it worked for about a week, then she got a nerve pill and pain pill prescribed and she wouldn't let him distribute those. her and I fell back into not speaking. I just want her to get help for herself because I know how much it would mean to him. it's a hit or miss with her. I can't talk to her about it because she is in denial about the whole thing. 😳
sherry S·
well try not to over stress it, your pregnant :)
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not for much longer @nygirl3rdbabymiami 😳 I'm getting induced Wednesday and I'm only 37 weeks.