when you wake up and realize you don't know why you are even trying any more.... do I stay misrible because I want my child's father in its life? or do I leave it alone and walk away because I know he doesn't care? just don't know what to think any more.... I just want to go home honestly. I guess I'm going to start working towards that.
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@mybabyloves, truth. it's sad, he acts like he wants to be a dad but only to his two oldest boys. not the other or the baby growing in me now... it's just sad.
Lol he will be sorry one day, and he will have missed everything and not just with your child but with his others as well. and you will be the one who has seen all of their first and been through it all
@mybabyloves, I'm glad to know there is hope, I told him do you know I have men willing to buy houses for just a chance to be with me? and yet I stay stuck with your stupid ass...
That was my first pregnancy to a T but i kicked him out, and I will NEVER look back
@mybabyloves, this is my first child, I haven't been able to be happy for this baby one day of this pregnancy... that to me is just sad. @mv92 no I don't need him I jist need to stack up my money for me and baby and to get us back home that's the plan now.
both my girls won't have their dads in their life and I didn't really have mine either. it hurts so much but it hurts more when they're fighting and all that.
oh no no no. kick his ass out! seems like he is just a freeloading lazy ass ... you don't need him.
Kick him out, that's the exact situation I was in with my kids dad, my mistake was not doing it earlier. When my first was 4 months I got pregnant again by him and at that point I made the choice. My kids are doing much better and are soo much happier without him. He has not called to talk to them since the beginning of November, I tried for three years to make him be part of their lives.My sons behavior took a 180° turn for the better once I quit worrying about their dad. They are now 3.5 and 2.5 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and he is their dad, not the deadbeat that provided his sperm
Yeah my mother raised me and my brother, while my father left us and man who red it all over the us I have 6 sibling 2 I've never met and the younger 3 I barely know @mariemaverick
Damn I'm sorry to hear that well sometimes kids are better off without a parent. My dad wasn't in my life growing up it was just me and my mom and I would have it any other way!!!!@purplemissed
if he keeps making poor choices that could effect my baby's wellbeing the yes, the baby will be with it father @mariemaverick he already has 3 he doesn't see... he told me what's one more.
I'm sorry to hear that but just because y'all aren't together doesn't mean your baby won't have its father!!!
@mv92, he lives with me, I take care of him. I work and I pay all the bills he refuses to get off his ass and help me, he has no where to go. @michelle2220 it just sucks because I grew up with out my father and now I'm having to decide if my child will go through that too.
I'm sorry you're going through that. I went through it with my first and it was just so hard. if you can't be happy together it's just gonna be toxic. I know my daughter does better when I'm happier
ugh im so sorry you r going thru this. but always know your baby when he or she gets older would want to see you happy not miserable. it's so much healthier sometimes to split then to stay together. maybe try some time apart?
it happens s I guess @mybabyloves