So my husband is probably working all day and I hate it! he works all week from 8 -7 sometimes even…

Exactly what I'm going through right now! We have more than enough money but my fiancé is working weekends now too. Do literally 7 days a week. It's one thing if it is to provide for us but it's usually spent on new and bigger TVs or on video games. And I try explaining that shit shouldn't come before quality time with me and the baby and I tell him I'm getting depressed and he just doesn't get it. So I totally feel ya ❤️ I honestly don't have any advice because nothing I've tried has worked either :( I'm so sorry ❤️

I feel u girl!! my husband works insane amount of hours! exp..yesterday 19hrs! I also work to!jst got back frm maternity leave! we never really see each other cause Saturday he sleeps all day n Sunday if I work jst n the morning!!!Only reason why I'm working now so we can save for a second car ...plus he told me I can go on call n 6 months bt idk cause Thts about Xmas time!! bt I do miss the guy a lot!!Lol😍

It just sucks! I'm sorry you have to go through that too honn, worst part is that we only have one car, well we have two but one is not working rn and he's not really interested on fixing it or anything.

anyways like we only have one car, I can't really do or go anywhere, and then he tries to brainwash me saying he has to work more to get another car, like duuude! ugh like I said I gave up .. @mamesey

@elismommy428, ugh that's hard!! I hate to say this but I don't think he will ever understand. I tried to say one time to my fiancé I will leave him at home all day with no help alone with the baby and see how long he lasts. But we all know that will never happen because he can't even last 15 minutes for me to take a damn shower. Maybe that's a good thing to try on your husband tho? Idk that's all I can think of. I'm sorry 💕 not having a car is really tough too! I'm lucky enough to have one. Even tho I stay home 90% of the time, I can still run errands when I need to. I can't imagine 💕

see that's what I want to avoid @leesambee!!! like If that's the whole point then I'll just get a job, we are not seeing each other that much anyway, but what about his son? like my son is 10 months and he cries if he sees him go, It's already hard for him and he still goes off and works all damn week, and not to mention he comes back all cranky because he's "tired,"

I've tried telling him that, cuz oh!! I forgot to mention he also pays soccer on Sundays, which sometimes I don't really feel like just standing there dealing with a teething baby you know? so I rather stay home.

Okay and I tell him one of these days I'll take my two hour break from everything just like him, so he'll have take care of the baby, and he's like "well go!! go do whatever you want to do, I'll give you money" and 5 min later he's like "omg what does he want? he just won't stop crying!," and I always tell him try dealing with that all day 😒 I guess if they spend more time with them they would know how to deal with it but nope, money is more important @mamesey

@elismommy428, exactly!! They think it's so easy but hand them the baby and they lose their shit. And then the next day go back to saying what we do is easy. So annoying!