Question ladies: If this pregnancy wasn't planned and you were over 35 and had a m/c...would you…

Question ladies: If this pregnancy wasn't planned and you were over 35 and had a m/c...would you want to try to get pregnant on purpose next time to fill that void? I lost my first daughter at 14 weeks and it just hit me I'm getting close to that. Plus I am 36 :-(...too much on my mind this morning...