So I saw a post on fb. " what do you think about disciplining step kids"? A lot of people don't…
So I saw a post on fb. " what do you think about disciplining step kids"? A lot of people don't believe step parents should have that responsibility. I strongly disagree. If I can buy you toys and food and stuff you need then I should be able to discipline you when you get outta line. If it was an issue in my household then I wouldn't do anything . Its either all or nothing. I'm not gonna shower you with gifts if I can't discipline. What do you guys think on this?
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Definitely agree! I'm a step mother and thankfully my s.o doesn't take authority away from me. I wish he was more disciplined as I am and would correct them before I say anything BUT when I do say something he backs me up. I feel like the problem lies more on the other parent and the child. Currently I have a problem with my step son because his mother makes things difficult by telling him comments.
mimi·
Мама двоих (младенец)
agree!
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i agree!!
Shannon Catullo·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
I go with the old fashion rule .. Respect ur elders and as long as they are under your roof it's ur rules and they abide .. They can't disrespect and they listen and if they don't consequences.. Not to mention if they don't and ur disaplining your own how can u expect urs to respect u??
Gabi·
Honestly I don't discipline my soon to be step kids and I also don't provide for them, really. They are with my fiancé 4 days out of the month- every other weekend. They're way out of control and I can't handle them. They'll kick, hit, or throw things at me. So that's why I leave it to my fiancé.
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (35 нед.)
I'm a step parent and my step son's real mom isn't in the picture at all so he calls me mommy and I discipline just like I would my own. I told my SO starting out, "if you don't want me to discipline then I guess you'll always have to be around because I won't enforce your rules when they misbehave." it has only been a problem once or twice but now my SO fully agrees with me disciplining our son and backs me up. He also enforces the rules I made and will follow through if they're broken. and honestly if someone thinks I don't have the right to discipline I just look at them and tell them that I cook for him, clean up after him, do his laundry, bathe him, make sure he's taken care of and when they help with all that then they can have a say in what happens with him.
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (13 нед.)
@babymaciesmomma giiirl... I would not be able to handle being disrespected like that. nope nope. not the house where I live and they lay their head and eat at. nope nope..