last night I had a "break down" if you will.... my son wouldn't listen, and the baby wouldn't quit…
last night I had a "break down" if you will.... my son wouldn't listen, and the baby wouldn't quit crying and wouldn't nurse either. I was at my wits end so I went and sat in the car. my husband was in the shower after spending about an hour at his parents, so I was trying to deal on my own. when I came back in my husband looks me right in the eye and says "next time you decide to flip out, make sure I'm down here so I don't think the kid fell down the stairs"....did he seriously say that to me????!!!thanks a lot buddy glad I have your damn support, maybe next time I will put the keys in the ignition and just fucking leave (I wouldn't leave the kids here alone, I would take them to my in laws who live like 200 feet from our house. we built our home on their property). I was seriously appalled when he said that to me. I don't dare say anything to him about it because I would be in the wrong, I seriously feel sometimes that I'm not allowed to have feelings or have a breakdown or anything without him judging me or saying "you want to trade?" yes I stay home with the kids, but that doesn't mean I don't do anything, my god I do everyone's laundry, I clean the whole house (we have almost doubled our living space with our remodel after having our daughter) I make sure the kids are fed, I buy all the groceries for the house, I cook all the meals (he will once in awhile cook a breakfast), hell I even made sure everything was packed and loaded into the car for our damn trip, but I'm not allowed to be stressed???!!! sorry for the rant so early in the morning mamas, it has just been bugging me all night what he said to me
Rae·
Мама сына-младенца
😕 this mamma needs a long over due break. I hope you are able to do something special for yourself soon . even if it's alone time chilling in the sun. 💞
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@raegottie, that would be nice, however I think the earliest that will happen is when my husband and I go away for our anniversary the first weekend in August lol
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
so next time tell him (maybe even send a text if you can) i know is stressfull at times by yourself my first 2 are 3 years apart and i was a single mom after leaving their father when my son was just 8 months guys don't relize and stay gone as long as you need heck maybe extra, let him take care of everything i don't work but my boyfriend does and he helps me out still granted i do the majority we are only human and can only put up with so much at one given moment. I'm sure had you told him he may have still been shitty idk tho or he may have talked you out of it
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
@sarahdrew,
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
"the kid" won't why he said or like that
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@shann, I will definitely try talking to him about it.... I was just I shock he said what he said, like I sit and plan a day and time to have a breakdown lol
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
some days id rather work but i also know id still have to come home and do shit i do now and well i don't want to do that so I'll stick with staying home he makes more than i would any way and neither one of us want him in daycare@sarahdrew
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
right I've been there but i didn't leave i broke a dish (threw a casserole dish in the sink) they both speed and listened for the rest of the night its hard sometimes they don't wanna listen they fight with each don't wanna eat dinner. i totally understand @sarahdrew
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
i didnt have a car to sit in and was there bymyself. @sarahdrew
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@shann, he offered to take the kids for a few hours to give me some alone time.... I think I need to learn to talk about things before it all builds up
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
yeah that just makes it worse sometimes, that is good you need it and deserve it too, he will see how much you go through.
Shannon·
Мама троих детей
@sarahdrew,
Dawn Weiss Craig Green·
Мама троих детей
Some men are not team players. So selfish